Decades ago, true love really existed that was always ready to give sacrifice...and be truly selfless and compassionate in the most extraordinary manner. Love that would be ready to give any test, yet be humble, trusted on all the levels of humanity, be kind, giving and understanding for “True Love” !!!
Those times were totally different from the times… we are living in, today.
Every lonely heart that longs for True Love asks:
Where did the LOVE Go…
Where did the REAL LOVE Go…
Where did the TRUE LOVE Go…
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Ironically, in the present age/era, where individuality, egoism, selfishness and materialism radically dominate, the real definition of "Love" and/or “True Love” seems to have erased to a major extent in the most drastic manner. There are indeed everyday living examples to it. Seen, felt and heard...aloud! Fighting over...Love!
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The Modern love in 21st century is very often categorised and characterised by typical super "fleeting sentiments", "emotions & feelings" besides conditional, restrictive & uncertain attachments...(whatsoever), and predominantly transactional exchanges taken over in a significant way affecting the relationships very badly.
No one is ready to shed his/her ego and bow in front of the importance and value of relationships. Such an Irony!. Giving up on LOVE easily seems to be a trend nowadays rather than finding an appropriate solution to swiftly resolve the matter for the betterment of the relations. It’s indeed a sad state of affairs. REAL LOVE has just simply "Vanished"!
It’s very important to note and understand that the purity and sanctity of all close and vital relationships is simply tested, challenged and confronted by infidelity, cheating, betrayal, unfaithfulness, self-centered & egoistic quests/pursuits, hence leading to a decline in genuine, sincere and honest commitment. Oh Boi...What to do! with such people!
Furthermore, the extensive dependence on “Social Media” amplifies superficial, shallow, artificial and insincere acquaintances, making love literally seem more like a “status symbol” than a real, affectionate and deep bond. This is pretty evident in the current social times, everywhere you see.
Not particularly blaming Social Media... but ghosting, spying, arguments, breakups, cheating etc. you very well see, all on it.
It’s sad to see that “True love”/”Real Love”… deeply rooted in selflessness, faith, hope, trust, & respect, seem to literally struggle against this tide and drifting apart badly. Times have really changed.
Is Love being used as a Tissue Paper or a Paper Napkin...most probably!
However…in several cases, the relationships, these days are just driven by suitability and convenience or sheer personal gain and individualistic approach instead of common and mutual growth and selfless support that is... giving. This has indeed led to an increased sense and an element of disillusionment, disappointment, cynicism and scepticism regarding the concept of love cropping up disbelief and distrust among the partners and couples...for sure! There is Doubt...in mind...over everything !!!
Nevertheless, amid this depressing, disheartening, discouraging and intimidating reality, there is still a belief that “Pure Love” still exists…with a Hope!!!. Apparently it flourishes silently/quietly in places where selfishness simply gives way to compassion, understanding and empathy, & people choose to see, feel believe & wonderfully nurture, cultivate and encourage each other's strengths & flaws alike. It’s like a lifeline to each other at all times in the most supporting and fascinating way.
Real love/True Love sustains challenges, tests & trials, compliments & respects individuality, &greatly celebrates togetherness in the most trusted and wonderful manner. Yes! It definitely needs sincere efforts! If you are up for it!
The spirit, soul & essence of Pure Love hasn’t disappeared or vanished entirely…it has undeniably, just become harder to find. It requires tremendous efforts to maintain and groom a relation in the healthy way. Its indeed and uphill task in today’s testing times.
Awkwardly enough, in today’s world which is driven by absolute self-centeredness, those who dare to Love Unconditionally are unquestionably…completely rare but utterly invaluable. Such people remind us that Love’s true quintessence…selflessness…genuineness, & dedication…cannot be obliterated by so called modern scepticism.
Possibly/Probably…the Real Challenge lies in redefining “Love” not by the values, morals, ethics and standards of society but simply through the individual actions & activities that truly value trust, honesty, genuineness, sincerity and care on the whole.
“Love”, when genuine, honest & sincere, still holds the real power and strength to transcend…exceed…surpass the nonstop nonsense & pandemonium of the modern world in which we all live to struggle each day for infact…Everything!!!
True Love/Real Love/Pure Love is not an issue of utmost importance for the millennials.
Love has definitely taken a back bench and is in waiting…!!!
PS: The thoughts and ideas are absolutely mine, over my individual experiences and understandings about love. They do not specify or represent thoughts and ideas of any other individuals or other people who might be experiencing the same, or disagree to it. Thanks!!!