We all often say that we should not lie or should I say that we should always speak the truth but sometimes the situation comes that we have to lie and perhaps that is the only way. When we were young, our parents used to lie to us and sometimes they used to make promises that they used to break perhaps. If there is a small child in our family, then we also tell many lies many times to silence him. Those lies are quite different from reality and we know that it is not possible but still we say anything to silence him and perhaps we do not even realize that what we have said can have a deep impact on the small child. Although I hate liars a lot and I always speak the truth, yes sometimes we have to lie to recognize ourselves or should I say to defend ourselves but I try to speak the truth and take the help of lies as little as possible.
Well, I don't know how many times we have lied in our lives till now. Sometimes we lie intentionally and sometimes it becomes our compulsion to lie. And sometimes it happens that we have to lie for the good of others. Yes, sometimes it benefits them and sometimes it doesn't. Many times it happens that we lie to fulfill our needs, to protect ourselves or for our good and we don't even care about the effect it will have on other people. Sometimes we lie to encourage someone and there is nothing wrong with this. If you feel that encouraging someone can make him perform well, then you should do it, but you should do it keeping the person in mind because many people overthink about their encouragement and they become overcommitted and this affects them a lot in the future.
I don't know how many times I must have lied, sometimes we lie jokingly and sometimes we become serious and sometimes lying also turns out to be good after several months, as it happened with me, about a few years ago, my younger brother had completed his studies and he was wandering here and there, I will not say that he worked very hard in search of a job, but still after a certain age, it becomes such that we need a job and if we do not get a job, then we have to face a lot of problems because after this time you feel a little ashamed even while asking for money from your parents, this does not happen with everyone, but many people feel a little hesitant in asking for money after some time and we should also be like this, I think that after a certain time, when our studies are completed, we should become self-dependent and we should look for employment for ourselves. So what happened was that when my brother was searching for a job, I came to know from somewhere that there was a small company in our city and there was a vacancy and the job profile matched my brother's education.
I had been forcing him for many weeks to go there and give an interview but he kept on postponing it I don't know what I was thinking that day. I told him that I had called there and they had said to send him on the weekend because at that time our workload is less and maybe then we can get more time to conduct his interview. First, he shouted at me why did you do this without asking me, then I explained to him that there is nothing wrong with going once, only after going once you will know what will happen, the next day I convinced him and he got ready for the interview in the morning. I was very confident that he would crack the interview because he had a good knowledge of the subject and he had been taking coaching in this field for almost 1 year or should I say he was practising, you know how the people around you are and what they are good at and if you get a chance, you feel that an opportunity has come for them, you should encourage them, maybe I also did the same thing that day but I had lied, I was a little scared of this because I did not know what was going to happen to him after going there.
When he arrived, his first question was that was saying that they said there was no call why did you lie? I also pretended for a while and said that I did call, then I asked, forget what, how did your interview go, he replied that the interview was good but they told me to call and tell me when everything becomes clear to me, then I told her the truth that I lied to him if I had not told him so, then probably he would never have joined, but the good thing here was that after a week he got a call from the office and he joined and it has been more than 1 year since my brother has been working there, first he may or may not remember that thing of mine but I will always remember how he got the job and I had a small contribution in it.
so I would say here that sometimes lying can also be beneficial, it depends on what kind of lie it is, if it is encouraging someone or it is a lie told for someone's good, then it will be good, what do you think about this?
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