Is Anger truly a destructive spirit? or is it people who see it as an opportunity to wreak havoc and destroy people and things?
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I will admit that it is pain, hurtful words, or other bad things that lead to anger, and in most cases when the anger comes, people tend to use it to fight who/what causes the anger and end up injuring someone or destroying things.
If you know someone who is always angry, any slight thing provokes them, such people need love! because their heart is broken and they are filled with so much hatred that a little mistake from anyone would trigger the anger already inside them.
In the year 2011, I was a good example of an angry bird, I get angry so easily and I always show it, I get easily provoked and my fist does the talking, I was known in the neighborhood because I fight a lot but I was not always like this before the year before 2011, so what went wrong? why did the friendly guy suddenly become hostile towards everyone who looks for his trouble or tries to cheat him, It was that year I got heartbroken, which contributed to the angry spirit.
It was when I met someone online who showered me with love and eased my pain I started to let go of the hoodlum behavior in me, I learned to control my anger to the max and I would never attack or fight someone unless I am pushed to the wall, I avoid trouble or fight at all cost .... Love is indeed powerful.
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I learned to channel the angry spirit into doing something positive, there was a day I was provoked in my workplace, before that time, I had asked my sister to follow me to the bank to open an account but she had been busy and I didn't want to go alone, can't explain the feeling that made not want to go there alone but that day I was angry and I decided to use that anger to visit the bank, I did not even think twice about it and when I left the bank that day, I wonder why I have been holding back as there was nothing to be afraid of.
So anger is a spirit that makes us fearless, this is why if there is someone who fears you, respect yourself and let it be that way, do not push them to their limit cos that is when you will realize that person is stronger than you, it is lack of courage that makes them allow you to bully them.
Nowadays, when I am angry, I just shut everyone off and focus on working, I become faster when I am angry so you can say I am more productive in my anger mode...
Everyone can learn this, it is not every time you are angry that you will end up injuring someone or fighting people, use that energy for something better!
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