They say kids are a blessing from God but some kids can be trouble. Regardless, we all wish to have kids at some point in time in our lives.
A world without children will be bored because, these dear once puts smiles on our faces. When God made the first parents, he ordered them, be fruitful and become many. So, start from origin, children are blessing from God. Though, some children are trouble to their parents right from birth or when they have grown up. Regardless of that, one needs to have a child in his or her life. Some women have lost their life's today during child delivery, some have undergone painful surgery, some after labour and 9 months of pregnancy ends up losing their baby, some children do became stubborn right from childhood and refused to change their way of life even when they have grown up. Instead he chose to live a wayward life. All these and more are the troubles associated with bearing children.
But we wouldn't reject having children because of all these problems mentioned above because it's blessings are far more than the problems.
When a Man is married, they next thing that will be in the couples mind is the fruit of the woomb. And when it doesn't happen at the time they expected it, you will see them going to see doctors, some will go to prayer houses or even to native homes to get a solution to their problem. That means a child is needed to complete their home. If is not a blessing, they won't bother looking for it. Many children are funn to be with. Making you smile with thei words, jokes, and more. I love children and they give me joy. What a blessing they're.
At old age, they children became more blessings to us because, they will in turn care for their aged parents. Many parents today are enjoying these blessings because their well trained children have become useful to themselves and to them their parents. It simply means that for us to enjoy these children, we have a part to play. Train them well and enjoy them at last. Though some children after undergoing trainings from their parents may choose another part then became a trouble to their parents. But many are indeed a blessing to their parents. Taking good care of their parents in all aspects of life.
For those without kids, at what age to do wish to have kids and what do you think is the ideal number of kids one should have. If you already kids, how’s it going? Do you wish to have more kids, less kids or none at all.
with my daughter
Am already a mother of one, hoping to have more one. If God should bless me with one male child, am okay with that. I wish to have less kids, just two of them because what matters today is how where you able to raise your children not how many they are. My daughter is just 8 years old for now and the journey has not been easy. I have turned to radio without battery because of her hehe. Making me to reapet one word often. Well, am really enjoying her because, she do assist me with chores at home, doing well in her academics, making me smile, comfort's me when am in pains and finally my best and good friend. What if i don't have her? I wouldn't have enjoyed these blessings.
God has blessed me with her, so am doing my part to train her to the right part so that she will remain a blessing to me. To those facing trouble because of your children, may God that gives children visits them Amen.
All the pictures are mine
