Self Love Is All That Matters.

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One thing I have come to understand is that no matter how bad people talk about you either in front of you or behind you, the moment you prioritize your mental health and you love yourself, their words won't get to you.

As a young man, I have learned to appreciate the kind of body shape and features that I have. There was a time when ladies always complained about my height "Fash, you are too tall, are you sure you are from Earth?"

Back then, I would always bend a little to walk to match up with the people around me, trust me, it wasn't a healthy walking posture. When I thought of it, I wasn't that tall compared to my friend Oche who was taller than me. Since I met Oche, I have never bent to walk again, I will stand up straight and show everyone I am taller than them.

My height is one of the features I love about myself. Currently, it's like every lady wants a tall guy in their life so I have to be careful before one of them snatches me from the community.

Another feature I love about myself is my Smile

Some people are like "Oh, you have got an innocent face" Hehehe I laugh. The only reason they say this is because I always put on a smiling face when I am out there. One of my favorite phrases is

Smile today when you still have teeth, tomorrow might be too late.

And this is why I smile always. One thing you don't know is that a smile makes you look younger. Don't you like my smile too?

Lastly, the feature I am always ready to flaunt anywhere any day without shame or fear is the complete package of Fash. "My body structure"

I love everything about my body structure. There was a time when I hit the gym so often, probably that was how I got into this good shape. Most of what I do now is morning exercises and long walks to keep my mind healthy.

Like I said at the beginning of this blog

One thing I have come to understand is that no matter how bad people talk about you either in front of you or behind you, the moment you prioritize your mental health and you love yourself, their words won't get to you.

Love yourself, and people will love you for who you are. Thanks for reading.

My name is Fashtioluwa and this is my entry for the #octoberinleo prompt day 4. You are invited to join and write on any topics from the daily prompt and you can know how when you click Here

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Ever checked the phrase I use to end each of my post?

"Before you love anything or anyone else, love yourself first."

Self-love is important, it's like teaching a person how you want to be treated and loved and it also builds self esteem, so there you go!! You gotta love yourself harder..

Cheers!

Yeah
First is self love then Yu can love other too
Just like I do your you 😌

Okay! I fully agreed on this. Because I love your stature too! It looks good on you!

It is important to love oneself, it is a big step to knowing your worth.

Love this! 🌹

😊
Thanks for the compliment
And you’re right
Self love first before you can even love anything else, without self love, it will be hard to hold love in one’s heart

Ut is always good when one smiles. It will make you look handsome. Ypur height is the best height and what people are looking for. It is not and can never be a cheat to others who are short. God wanted you tell and so appreciate what and who you are.

Thanks so so much for the compliments

Glad you had to quickly adjust your posture not to satisfy others at the detriment of yourself. Your physique looks fairly intimidating and attractive btw

Mama Emjay just complimented me
I made it 🥹🥹🥹

Anyways
Thanks for the compliment and comment. I was feeling awkward walking that way and it was affecting my posture

Bro, that's it. Prioritising your mental health and loving yourself will keep you far and high from unnecessary things.

Nice to finally see ya picture.

Hehee
It been a while I saw you around.
Self love is very important because out of it comes all the remaining love
Thanks for the comment