Hello all Hive Learners friends, everyone
Good morning to all, I will start with today's discussion, where when I read the topic in the contest week #144 of course I will follow it, who is not happy with this topic, discussing about family which will certainly be fun, having a big family may be the dream of many people including me as one of them, I really hope that it will happen to me when I am married, Because many families may make things very easy when we are in need of help, I think not only in that case the advantages of having a large family in a relationship, there are some other things that are very beneficial to have a large family, if there is an event that something is being done by one of our families or relatives, We help each other to launch the event.
My mother's father includes having five children, all of them are boys, when I was a child I and my other siblings liked to fight, I noticed my mother's attitude like she was annoyed at seeing the behavior of her children, most of us almost every day the five of us are not too far away only 2 years apart, so we are not too far from the others, From there I was classified as one of the most prankstered children among my other siblings, I didn't think to my mother and father about my attitude at that time, among others I was one of the most difficult children to manage because I liked to laugh.
My grandmother and grandfather had three children, I felt that my grandmother at that time did not really want to increase the family, maybe the reason was economic or financial problems, in fact, what happened now is that the grandchildren of my grandmother's children are classified as one of the big outs, the children of my grandmother, my aunt has nine children, and the younger brother of my aunt has 10 children and my mother is among the least of the three of them only has five children, that's great if we have a big family, when there is an event we always gather together, and on ordinary days we also sometimes like to come to my aunt's house and her sister, just chatting or having coffee together, in social relations if having a big outing is quite influential, how not, every time there is an event at the house of the outgoing community we always appear and attend even though we take turns to come to it,What needs to be talked about is that our big family name is very popular in the eyes of the people in our village.
WHY IS POLYGAMY IN MY COUNTRY LEGAL?
It turns out that people want to have polygamy in a family, of course there are some strong reasons after a long debate, there are pros and cons in this case, but most of those who support polygamy are not only people who are thirsty for lust but their opinion is mostly that they want to add some children to become a big family, for me personally this is natural, However, for those who do not support polygamy, it is like betraying a love to their partner, from what I know is that almost 99% of women in my country do not agree that polygamy because women in my country feel that their affection has been divided, even though for a man it can be above as long as they agree with each other. After a long debate in the government office in my country, finally the decision was absolutely halal or allowed.
Having a large family is not all profitable, there are several things that need to be underlined where when there is a family gathering there is always a difference in income but it is a common thing, with many opinions we as the most mature people can take some of the best points among the best, that is the existence of consensus deliberation with the many opinions that arise we can judge which is worthy and which is not worth taking, But if you have a small family, it also has many shortcomings, when there is a family event like the real example that happened at the wedding of the children, it requires a lot of people, starting from preparing equipment for the wedding party, we are not able to do it ourselves, in the end we ask for help from other communities so that the event remains smooth.
Turning back to me at this time, I got married almost five years ago and I was just blessed with one child, namely my only son, my dream, of course I want to have a big family, but again we already have a wife who is sure a wife also has her own principles, it happens that my wife does not approve of many children, she just wants to have a small family, In his opinion, to have a big family, of course we must have a lot of money, in order to be able to meet all fields ranging from daily needs to children's education, if I think it's natural for my wife to think that because for now our financial condition is also in a downturn, and I promise my wife that if my finances are stable I want to add more children, But my wife's answer is still doubtful, hopefully my dream of building a big family can be achieved one day.
I want to go back a little bit where there are some people who don't have children at all, how lonely their lives are every day, only when they do their daily activities feel crowded but not at home, they only feel like the two of them have children like a haunted house, they feel anxious about the problems they are experiencing every day, They continue to do treatment every day to be able to have children, no matter how much money they have to spend to have children, so for friends who have a big family, you are all lucky and my message is to maintain harmony between families so that it becomes a safe, peaceful and peaceful family.
That's enough for my writing today, hopefully it will be useful for everyone, and thank you very much to friends who have read my post, I am happy to appreciate it very much, until I see you next time.
Thank you very much to all of you who have taken a little time to read this post of mine, hopefully it can be useful for all of us.
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