This post that I am writing reminds me of the story of Luciano Pavarotti and Plácido Domingo, Pavarotti faced health problems and Domingo helped him, supported him, and accompanied him in those difficult moments, proving that their friendship was genuine. I really doubt that this act of friendship was just for business, acting or fame, but sometimes relationships are deeper.
I believe in forgiveness and sincere and selfless friendship.
Without a doubt, when I forgive, after that I walk away for my mental health, for me friendship is like glass, that once it breaks, it turns out irreparable, of course!!! That certain conditions apply.
Not everything is black and white. Life always has its nuances.
As for the management of conflicts, difficulties and reconciliations in our lives, in addition to rising up in the face of adversity, through forgiveness and friendship, those feelings teach all of us the power of those feelings are a sample of such important values as: love, forgiveness, unity, courage, discipline, resilience that always opt for the good.
Personally and from my own experience I think that human beings can make beautiful lives and be a projection of nobility and support in very hard and difficult times.
Although it is also true that...
Not all of us are prepared to offer, support, help, give a helping hand, "and to forgive" much less to be good friends. It would take all the best intention and maturity to put everything aside and provide support to who once, perhaps, was our best friend.
I have rescued a good friendship more than once, it has been my decision, my choice and that's okay. Not in all cases we can do it, but it does happen.
Why?
Because forgiveness is the key to living in peace and it is to understand that it is through forgiveness, how we can save our sadness and anguish, it also frees us, and brings benefits to our emotional health, so relationships are not restored in the best way or as they were before the conflict.
Talking about forgiveness is a very deep topic because there are people, situations, things that happen that can be forgiven and move on with friendship, but!!! when it comes to crimes, extreme abuses, it is in this type of forgiveness, which should always be accompanied by this phrase "certain conditions apply."
Everything I have written today, subscribe to my words.
Because not everything is forgiven, nor are we all obliged to forgive. There are pardons that will never be given.
Just like this kitty (my pet) and my neighbor's puppy🤣, every time they have a close encounter they look at each other with bad fleas.
If you have an anecdote about how forgiving changed your life, let's talk in comments.
Janitze 🌹
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited with Canva
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Translation with |DeepL