This year, 2024, has truly been a rollercoaster for me, filled with lots of ups and downs. However, amidst all the challenges, I’ve learned several lessons that have shaped me into a better version of myself.
The first and most important lesson I’ve learned is that anything done out of anger rarely leads to good results. This hit me hard because, unfortunately, I’ve struggled with controlling my anger. I’ve had many encounters this year where my inability to remain calm caused unnecessary conflicts. One incident, happened recently that almost caused a dear friend of mine to get suspended from school for a year. The situation initially escalated because of my anger, and looking back now, I deeply regret my actions. It’s a lesson I’ll carry with me—that acting out of anger can hurt not just myself but also those around me.
Another lesson I’ve learned is to never take things too seriously or be overly negative about everything. I used to be the kind of person who overthink every little thing. At times, I would interpret harmless jokes or simple actions as something malicious, which often left me feeling upset or even bitter towards others. This mindset made it hard for me to find peace within myself, and it also affected my relationships with people. Someone could be joking with me, but I’d take it personally and respond with a negative attitude, even when no harm was intended. Thankfully, I’m learning to let go of this behavior. Life is too short to take everything so seriously, and I’ve realized the importance of giving people the benefit of the doubt.
This year has also taught me the value of hope and resilience. The beginning of 2024 was tough for me, especially financially. There were days when I struggled to feed myself properly or even be myself at school. It was really a challenging experience, but through it all, I never lost hope. I kept believing that things would eventually get better, even when it felt like the odds were against me. Thankfully, my situation has improved. Even though I’m not exactly where I want to be financially, I’m in a much better place right now. At least now, I don’t have to rely on friends to help me feed or buy the essential things I need. This improvement has shown me that perseverance and faith can truly lead to better days.
Reflecting on the year as a whole, 2024 has been a mix of good and bad moments. The challenges pushed me to grow, and the victories, reminded me no matter how small to be grateful. All in all, I’ve learned to control my emotions, avoid negativity, and hold on to hope during tough times. As the year comes to an end, I’m optimistic about what’s ahead. I genuinely hope the rest of the year brings more joy and excitement into my life, and I’m looking forward to starting 2025 on a positive note. Life is a journey filled with lessons, and I’m glad to be learning mine, one step at a time.
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