Hello everyone 🤗
Hope so you all are fine and happy!!!
We all have different kind of experience as we are surrounded by different people. Some people are good and some are bad and on the basis of people we have our experience. Well both good and bad perspective are the part of life.
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Who wants to gain bad experience!!! Obviously no one but we all have because it's the part of life.
In this week we've to write about family system or our family in which we live. I read some users post and two of them said joint family system is better, and two of them said short family system is better.
I belong to a large family!!!
My Dad has only two brothers, one is settled in UK with his family since 1975 and one is living here with my dad. So two brothers living in a house with their family and till this day they stay together. I used to live with cousins with whom we've enough frankness that we spend quality time together.
It's good that we have someone in home whom with spend quality time and share things but as we grow older and older my experience take a U-turn. Actually people can't see us happy now a days, they have a jealousy point in their heart, they never say by words but their actions speed loudly.
So I've both good and bad experience in my life while living in a family, it's just like when I start to understand things.
After marriage my experience with family!!!
I also live with large family in my in-laws but here I faced some other kind of problems which are totally different than my previous life. I need privacy most times but I don't have it here, even anyone can enter into my room and interrupt my privacy, only no one can't come into my room if I lock the door but then there's a question why you lock up the door.
I remember once there was a writing contest about choosing between privacy and freedom of speech in hive learner, and I remember @amberkashif post she choose privacy as she also live in joint family and she said she needs it.
But we've many advantages of living in large family too just like we've family around ourselves when we need support they are always there and stand up with us. If I'm ill and my husband isn't at home then my father in law is always there to check up me from doctor and if I insist that I'll not go to doctor then he try to convince me that you should go to doctor.
So, i think living with large family is also better because we've someone in our good and bad times. And if we see the disadvantages then i think we should ignore them as everything has some side effects and live happy with family.
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Raise a large family!!!
For me it's very difficult to raise a large family because you should have high management level to keep everything in order and even if I've a lot of money, still it's difficult to raise a large family because of my mismanagement lol.
That's all for today and it's my entry in this week hive learner contest in #hl-exclusive for the post #hl-w144e1
