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One of my favorite sayings is “It's not the situation. It's how you handle it.” Tell us a time when you used your thoughtfulness to turn a negative situation into a positive outcome. If you weren't able to fix things? why not?
It is not the situation, it is how you handle it...it is an internal process of each being, to reach this point you have to have gone through different stages of information, knowledge, changes of thoughts to reach this kind of conclusion.
All people in different types of situations present their own style...to reach a change of thoughts is a process.
In this process of life there are so many situations, at this moment comes to my memory one of those that we have gone through in my country Venezuela, this was very unpleasant and I arrived home so upset that I did not speak for two days, nobody knew why...in this narration that I do I did not know how to handle it.
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I was returning from work at mid-morning by a route that I was not used to, in the supermarket of the shopping center the line was huge, in those times to see a line was a symbol that they were selling some product, knowing that it was milk what they were about to sell I decide to make my queue, the shortest was the one for the elderly and there I got in, an abusive guard arrived, with his swear words and face out of shape with hatred told me to get out of there. ...my indignation was so great, I felt that arguing was not the most prudent thing to do because the people were full, between screams and a little bit of everything, I could not stand so much frustration, therefore, I decided to go home, walking a long way and my mind blocked by the rage and frustration I felt at that moment.
After living this experience... I reflected on what happened, a few days later I realized that I could not act that way, my health came first, I could not let myself be trapped by those moments of frustration.
I spent several moments seeing tails, as if I didn't see them. All I could think of was to go home and feast on whatever there was, even if it was just eggs. Once I was invited to make a queue, this time I did not go alone, so I encouraged myself, I put on the best suit of spirit and disposition, something like that so as not to fall again. Well, when the space where I was started to get rowdy, I said to myself: I'm leaving. This time I walked calmly, I breathed, I saw the stores that were open at that moment, I gave thanks for the walk I took. This time, I even allowed myself a little ice cream, because in those times we could not even afford candy.
This time I consider that I handled it better, I thought: this situation is out of my control and I cannot control it...I only allow myself to control what is in me.
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Uno de mis dichos favoritos es «No es la situación. Es cómo la manejas». Cuéntanos un momento en el que hayas utilizado tu consideración para convertir una situación negativa en un resultado positivo. Si no fuiste capaz de arreglar las cosas... ¿por qué no?
No es la situación , es como la manejas...es un proceso interno de cada ser, llegar a este punto se tiene que haber pasado por diferentes estadios de información, conocimiento, cambios de pensamientos para llegar a este tipo de conclusión.
Todas las personas ante situaciones de diferentes tipos presentan su estilo...para llegar a cambios de pensamientos es un proceso.
En este proceso de vida se presentan tantas situaciones, en este momento viene a mi memoria una de esas que hemos pasado en mi país Venezuela, esta fue muy desagradable y llegué a mi casa tan molesta que no hablé por dos días, nadie supo porqué...en esta narración que hago no la supe manejar.
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Regresaba del trabajo a media mañana por una ruta que no acostumbraba, en el supermercado del centro comercial la cola estaba inmensa, en esos tiempos ver una cola era símbolo de que vendían algún producto, al saber que era leche lo que se disponían a vender decido hacer mi cola, la mas corta era la de la tercera edad y allí me meto, llegó un guardia maltratador, con sus palabrotas y cara desconfigurada de odio me dijo que me saliera de allí...mi indignación fue tanta, sentí que discutir no era lo mas prudente porque la gente estaba colmada, entre gritos y de todo un poco, no aguanté tanta frustración, por lo tanto, decidí irme a mi casa, caminando un tramo bien largo y mi mente bloqueada por la rabia y la frustración que sentía en ese momento.
Después de vivir esta experiencia...reflexioné hacia lo ocurrido, unos días después me di cuenta que no podía actuar de esa forma, mi salud estaba primero, no me podía dejar atrapar por esos momentos de frustración.
Pasé varias momentos que veía cola, como si no las vi. Sólo pensaba en casa con lo que hay hacemos un festín, así sea huevos. Una vez me invitaron a hacer una cola, esta vez no iba sola, por eso me animé, me puse el mejor traje de ánimo y disposición, algo así para no volver a caer. Pues, cuando se comenzó a alborotar el espacio donde estaba, me dije: me voy. Caminé de esta vez tranquila, respiré, vi los negocios abiertos que había en ese momento , di gracias por el paseo que di. Esta vez, hasta un pequeño helado me permití, porque en esos tiempos ni un caramelo podíamos permitirlos.
De esta vez considero que la manejé mejor, pensé: esta situación está fuera de mi y no lo puedo controlar...solo me permito controlar lo que hay en mi.
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