Today is one of the best morning of my life and I'm glad it's the second day of December and just few days away from my birthday. Honestly I'm trying to understand why I have this good feelings in this month. I can't really think of anything that is making me feel specially happy right now but I know that I've always loved this season so much. Maybe because it's the same season when I was giving birth to many years ago. I know that a lot of things have changed in this world between then and now but I'm glad the weather feels the same or maybe just slightly different.
Love is something that can be described in many different ways by many different people, to some love is blind and to some love is light etc.
I've heard a young man say to her girlfriend that ever since she came to his life, she's brightened up his life. I know right within my that even though the young man didn't mention the word love in his statement but that is the language of love.
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There are also some who believe that love is blind and this sentence clearly can be heard in scenarios where one can over look physical differences, emotional differences or even psychological differences to settle down with one whom they truly connect with beyond emotional level.
Love is spiritual and its beyond just emotional connections. I know this for a fact and from certain experiences. I know of a handsome young man who loves to carry women, he's been so much into the business of jumping from one woman to the other and because he is my neighbor and we relate very well. I know the number of times a woman has cried for him when at home. A lot of this woman loved him and even try to connect to him even to the emotional level but all he knows is just to show them much love and give them what they wished for.
One day, one of his girlfriends slept through out the night and on the following day, he told me his girlfriend is going and he wants to see her off. I was there when they left only for him to come back later looking a little bit distressed and out of curiosity I asked him if everything is okay. That was when he opened up and told me that while he was on the road with the girl, another of his girlfriend met them on the road in front of the bank and they started quarreling over him and that quarreling led to a big fight that attracted the attention of many people including the security personnels.
At first, it was quite funny to me how two grown up ladies would fight over a guy who barely cares about them but on the second thought I tried to put myself in their shoe to properly understand how they truly feel.
From the guys statement I knew it really didn't bother him whether they kill themselves or not because he told me they were still fighting in front of the bank before he left them and returned. The Amazing thing is that some of these ladies actually knew earlier before then that this guy has other ladies whom he sleeps with. They actually knew about his lifestyle but because love is blind, they have choosen to block away the reality from their mind and be with him regardless.
The most funny thing is that after the two ladies even fought they continued from where they stopped following the guy regardless but the guy continued with his lifestyle until all those who women who were interested in him totally left him.
To my surprise, the woman whom he finally end up with and took as the love of his life was one girl whom I would never believe he can ever end up with.
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It's true that every woman is beautiful in their own way but really when it comes to beauty, the woman he ended up with is not even beautiful in any way compared to those he was relating with earlier. Not everyone can explain how certain things works in the universe most especially the issue of love. For the love of Allah or a certain group or community some can tie bombs on their waist to kill themselves and kill those they consider to be infidels. For love Jack died in titanic allowing rose a better chance of surviving. And for God so love the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believed in him should not perish but have everlasting life. (John 3:16)
No matter what love means to us or how we define love, may we never stop believing in love and may we keep loving one another genuinely because love is the only thing that can heal this our world.
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