Memoir Monday #34 What things are you proudest of in your life?

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This is my post for #memoirmonday What things are you proudest of in your life? hosted by @ericvancewalton

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Other than my children and grandchildren, I am proud of being a commercial fisherman back before the net ban and before the river crashed and after it crashed until my body would not let me fish. I was the only woman fisherman in my town. I can no longer fish but I look back on my life and I am proud of the things I did. I was not the top fisherman but I was not at the bottom of the past either. I caught fish.

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I had always fished the same boat with my husband and one day he had to go to a fisheries meeting and told me to take the boat and catch jacks, we had been catching them. I did not want to take the boat on my own but thought I would try. I caught 1,500 pounds of jacks, my husband had to get himself a new boat because from that day on, that boat was mine. I am driving my boat sitting on my net with pogies roped in.
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I am proud of being the only fisherman who used a splatter pole to catch their limit of trout and never moved my anchor. A splatter pole is a 19 foot pole with only a line and hook. My splatter pole is the long pole lying flat on my boat. It is basically a long cane pole.

When I caught them one of the best splatter pole fisherman was fishing near me, he later told me he could tell I was catching them but had no idea I was catching that good. I had 77 head on that anchoring, I counted wrong, our limit is 75, but I only weighed up the 75 so the fish house would not get in trouble for buying over the limit. I kept the last two on ice and weighed them the next day.

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Before the net ban, I would take my boat across the river when it was blowing so hard that not many men would cross it. I would have to have full rain gear on while crossing and sometimes I could hardly see from the salt spray. It was this time of year, October, right ahead of a cold front, I had a bigger boat with 600 yards of net. I caught sheepshead as they were leaving the river for the ocean. I had a place at Peppercove where I could run my net over out in the rough river and then I could go into the cove to get out of the wind. I could see my net and when all of the corks went under I knew I had fish and would have to use the motor and drive while pulling the net into the boat. After I got that net in, I had another piece of net I would run back over and take the one with fish in it back into the cove where it was calm and I could clear the fish out and ice them.

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I am proud of this set of fish. Every roe mullet season I would sit at the creek and wait for the mullet to come under the bridge, we were not allowed to catch them on the other side of the bridge. This guy was with his Father and I was pulled into shore cooking boiled peanuts when a mullet just cleared the water. This guy started setting his net and I jumped in my boat and threw my buoy. He had 1,100 pounds and I had 4K, after he got his net back, he got on my boat and helped me get mine back, I had a disposable camera on my boat and snapped this picture of him.

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When we fished the ocean, we always fished together, I am proud of the man he is and his knowledge of the ocean and river, I learned everything I know from him.

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After the net ban, we both started fishing with rod and reels, now this is what I knew all about since I grew up at the Inlet, and nets were not allowed there so I grew up rod and reel fishing. I am holding two 5 pound pompano, the biggest one I caught was 6 pounds, I fished for Judahs when I caught it. I am proud of that fish, my husband has never caught one that big, hehehehe.

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I also learned how to throw a 12 foot castnet, but it was too much webbing for my hand so I went down to a 10 foot net.

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I caught a fish called Goats with a castnet. I learned how to drive a trolling motor mounted on my bow with my foot, when I made a throw, I would swing the trolling motor around backward and step on a switch that was attached to my bowcap to back up and tuck the net.

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I caught jacks on my splatter pole, one day I was drifting and hooked a 12 pound jack. I had to stand up to fight it, it kept going round and round my boat pulling me in circles. A huge Bull shark got after it as we were going round and round. When the shark hit the jack it cut it into just behind the dorsal fin, the front half weighed 6 pounds. I saw it cut the jack into but did not feel a tug or anything, he cut it like cutting butter. Not really something to be proud of but it made an impression on me.

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After I hurt my back, I could no longer use a splatter pole or a cast net, I could only use a rod and reel. I am proud that I could still make a living by only using a rod and reel.

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I could not sell snook or redfish, they were against the law, so when we were tired of eating them, I would give them to people I know or strangers on the river. Sometimes I would see someone who was living on their boat and I would stop and give them fish, or if I saw someone on the shoreline fishing or at a homeless camp, I gave them fish. I have been at a store or the boat ramp and have had people come up to me and say that I gave them a fish and how the appreciated it. That always made me feel good and proud that I gave it to them.
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Fabulous life-story, thank you for sharing 😍

Thank you and you are welcome.

Sweet! Now I know who to call to tie a knot!

hahahaha, I can tie a knot.

Pretty amazing life story. Thanks for sharing the journey of a proud fisher-woman :)

I gave them a fish and how the appreciated it

One of the best worldly achievements :)

#aliveandthriving

I have given many fish away, Last week I saw a man that I gave fish to, he was one of them that lived on a boat. He still thanks me for giving him fish all those years ago.

You certainly have lead an interesting life. Thanks for sharing your story and the photos.

Thank you and I do agree, it has been interesting.

This is so awesome!! I never did commercial fishing, but fishing was one of the things I always did with my dad. He was a bit older when he had me so a lot of sports he really couldn't do with me because of his age, but I will always remember the fishing camping trips the countless drives on Saturday mornings to the beach to fish off the pier. He is 89 now, and 90 in January, so I don't think I will be able to do any fishing trips with him again, but maybe.

Thank you for reading my post.
My stepfather's brother was 91 and wanted to go fishing, we wheeled him to the edge of the creek and put a pole in his hand, he only caught catfish but enjoyed it anyway.

If you could have seen the look on his face maybe you would consider taking your father fishing, if you can't take him to the pier, maybe you could take him to a boat ramp or some other place where he can sit and fish.

That is if it is something he would like to do.

Awesome!! Yes, actually after reading your post yesterday I contacted my brothers and we are indeed planning on taking my father fishing. :)

It will be a memory all of you will cherish.

Indeed!!

What an incredible adventure that must have been! Your posts remind me so much of the stories some of my parents' neighbors used to tell us about the "old Florida". They lived in Rockledge and their community, Indian Oaks, was filled with retired space coast workers.

Your mention of the inlet sparked a memory for me. My brother had a small boat when he lived down there that the salesman convinced him was "sea worthy". He took us down the Banana River and into open water and what was meant to be a leisurely morning quickly turned into a nightmare. The air temp was around 50 in the early morning. The water was calm at first but a about an hour in the wind kicked up and the waves were so high we were getting drenched and teetering on hypothermia. It was one of the few times I was preparing to meet my maker, I couldn't believe how quickly conditions got dangerous. We were all so exhausted by the time we got back to the dock and the warm shower I took when we got back to the house was the best shower I've ever had in my life.

Yes, things can change on the river in a blink of an eye. With it 50 degrees I would say it was a north wind and a cold front broke down on you which is not good. I am glad you were all ok.

Try as I may to get to the dock before the weather broke, I have had that happen more times than I can count, I know exactly how you felt.

Was the dragon at the mouth of the Banana River when you were here? I think they called her Anne, but not 100% sure about that.

As someone who doesn't have much experience on the water it was terrifying. What made matters worse is my stepson was with us. All I could think about was how terrible I would feel if anything happened to him. He was so stressed and worn out from the near-hypothermia that he slept the rest of the day when we made it back to my parents' house.

I've never heard of Anne! Is it like the Loch Ness monster?

Being raised on the river I would have been very worried especially if it was cold and having a child with you.

Anne is a dragon

she was destroyed by one of the hurricanes 6 years ago
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I don't ever remember seeing this! It was a cool sculpture though. I thought, at first, you were saying there was a legend of something in the water like the Loch Ness monster.

Lol on Nessy.

The dragon was built in 1971 and on special occasions it would breathe fire.

Maybe you were gone by then.

I shared the link with my brother and he remembers the dragon. He said it was in really bad shape when he lived there. I bet to see it breathing fire was a sight to behold!

I never saw it breathe fire, I live too far south but sometimes traveled there to fish. Cool that your brother remembered the dragon. It also had eggs with some having baby dragons part way out of them.