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Β Hola a todas las damas de esta hermosa comunidad de #LadiesOfHive. Hoy estoy por aquΓ con ustedes para compartir mi primer post en esta adorable comunidad y participar formalmente en la iniciativa Concurso #209 de la Comunidad LOH. Extiendo mi invitaciΓ³n a @robotgirl2024 y @yasmarit si gustan hacerlo, aΓΊn tienen chance hoy.
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Β Honestamente pienso que sΓ. Aunque existe el caso de personas que creen firmemente que tienen mΓ‘s de un alma gemela. Sin embargo, en mi caso y creencia personal, me inclino mΓ‘s a creer que si existe alguien con la capacidad de amarnos y aceptarnos por completo en este vasto mundo.
Β Vamos, somos un total de 8 millones de personas en el mundo. ΒΏCΓ³mo no va a existir alguien que no nos acepte ni nos ame? Para mΓ, resulta ridΓculo creer que no. AdemΓ‘s es lo que mΓ‘s anhelo en el mundo, encontrar a ese alguien super especial e importante que me haga sentir amada, aceptada y aporte tantas cosas positivas a mi vida.
Β Pero la realidad es otra. Actualmente llevo soltera desde hace bastante tiempo, estuve con alguien por casi 7 aΓ±os y la relaciΓ³n simplemente no avanzaba, se estancΓ³ por completo pero yo cambiΓ© tanto y no era la misma persona que fui cuando la relaciΓ³n iniciΓ³.
Β Por lo tanto me vi en la obligaciΓ³n de terminar todo al aceptar y darme cuenta que esa persona que estaba conmigo nunca iba a cambiar, Γ©l era asΓ y siempre serΓa asΓ. Esto me hizo entender que las cosas nunca hay que obligarlas ni imponerlas. Todo debe fluir por iniciativa propia, por amor, empatΓa y fraternidad con el otro, si veo que le hago daΓ±o a esa persona amada, busco maneras de mejorar mi forma de ser, no sigo haciendo lo mismo causando daΓ±o una y otra vez.
Β AdemΓ‘s, hubo un tiempo en el que escuchΓ© una leyenda que habla de un hilo rojo. En la que se dice que no importa el tiempo, el espacio ni las circunstancias que te depare la vida, si esa persona es para ti, llegarΓ‘ en algΓΊn momento cuando sea preciso. Por lo que dicho hilo puede estirarse, encogerse, extenderse e incluso enredarse pero nunca se romperΓ‘.
Β AsΓ que me aferro a esa creencia y me niego a creer que no exista alguien que quisiera estar a mi lado, asΓ como soy, con mis defectos y mis virtudes. Para ser honesta, estoy muy pero muy cansada, es mΓ‘s, dirΓa que hasta exhausta de escuchar a tantas personas que me digan "si no ha llegado el hombre de tu vida es porque no estΓ‘s lista y no te amas lo suficiente a ti misma".
Β ΒΏCΓ³mo puedes decirle algo asΓ a alguien? ΒΏEs que acaso los que estΓ‘n solteros no merecen ser amados? ΒΏNacieron con algo malo y por eso repelen a los demΓ‘s? No me parece. Cada quien es digno de ser amado, sin importar lo mucho o lo poco que tΓΊ te ames a ti mismo, es decir, una cosa no tiene nada que ver con la otra.
Β Porque al final una relaciΓ³n se conforma por trabajo, esfuerzo, crecimiento, dedicaciΓ³n y evoluciΓ³n mutua. He ahΓ el secreto de una relaciΓ³n fructΓfera y a largo plazo que dure dΓ©cadas. Son personas que se mantienen juntas pase lo que pase, estΓ‘n conscientes de lo que implica vivir con alguien totalmente diferente o similar, conocen sus defectos y aprenden a sobrellevar los malos momentos. Es asΓ de sencillo.
Β Yo he estado soltera por 8 aΓ±os. Y fue el aΓ±o pasado que me atrevΓ a intentar algo con alguien que sΓ³lo querΓa pasar el rato, mientras que yo buscaba algo serio. Actualmente sigo soltera y sigo trabajando en mΓ misma para sanar las heridas que me dejΓ³ este muchacho y muchas otras personas que me buscaron sΓ³lo porque necesitaban algo de mΓ.
Β Este tiempo asΓ me ha hecho aprender mucho de mΓ y tambiΓ©n ir sanando viejas heridas que han ocurrido no sΓ³lo en mi etapa adulta sino tambiΓ©n en mi niΓ±ez. Son muchas cosas y aunque me encantarΓa hacer esta evoluciΓ³n a la par con alguien mΓ‘s, que me sepa acompaΓ±ar y acompasar en el proceso, para mΓ serΓa lo ideal pero por ahora me toca seguirlo haciendo sola. Mientras tanto no pierdo la fe ni la esperanza de que llegue alguien a mi vida que merezca la pena de compartir mucho tiempo juntos.
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Β Generalmente cuando tengo un muy mal dΓa, lo que mΓ‘s me hace reΓr es ver memes y videos graciosos por Facebook. TambiΓ©n me suelen robar sonrisas entre mis lΓ‘grimas las ocurrencias de mis perritos, ellos definitivamente saben cuΓ‘ndo estoy triste y buscan maneras de obligarme a reΓr y hacerme sentir mejor. Por eso los amo tanto.
Β TambiΓ©n me ayuda mucho escuchar mΓΊsica con letras y mensajes positivos. Que me ayuden a enfocarme en que sΓ³lo es un mal rato, todo tiene soluciΓ³n, que la vida es hermosa y mi vida es importante. Y si nada de lo anterior funciona, busco ver una buena pelΓcula de terror o suspenso que me ayude a calmar esos pensamientos negativos de mΓ misma. Y si es muy grave la forma en la que me estoy sintiendo busco hablar con mis mejores amigas. Ellas siempre saben hacerme sentir mejor.
Hasta aquΓ dejo mi participaciΓ³n, espero que les haya gustado leerme. DΓ©jenme saber lo que piensan en los comentarios, me encanta leerlos! π
Hasta mi prΓ³ximo post!π
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| Imagen de Portada | DeepL |
| Pareja Viendo un Lago | CANVA |
| Pareja Caminando en la Playa | Grammarly Extension para correcciones en Ingles |
| Mujer Solitaria viendo un Lago | LanguageTool para correcciones en EspaΓ±ol |
| Brazos Unidos con Hilo Rojo | |
| Mujer y Hombre con Hilo Rojo | |
| Mujer Sentada con Hilo Rojo | |
| Chica Sonriendo y Viendo su TelΓ©fono | |
| Chica Durmiendo con su Perro | |
| Amigas Riendo en Blanco y Negro | |
| Contenido y Texto Original de mi AutorΓa |
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Β Hello to all the ladies of this beautiful #LadiesOfHive community. I am here with you today to share my first post in this lovely community and formally participate in the initiative Ladies of Hive Community Contest #209. I extend my invitation to @robotgirl2024 and @yasmarit if they would like to do it, they still have a chance today.
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Β I honestly think so. However, there is the case of people who firmly believe they have more than one soul mate. However, in my case and personal belief, I am more inclined to think that if there is someone with the capacity to love and accept us completely in this vast world.
Β Come on, we are a total of 8 million people in the world, how can there not be someone who does not accept and love us? For me, it's ridiculous to believe there isn't. Besides, it's what I long for most in the world, to find that super special and important someone who makes me feel loved and accepted and brings so many positive things to my life.
Β But the reality is different. I've been single for quite some time now, I was with someone for almost 7 years and the relationship just didn't move forward, it stagnated completely but I changed so much and I wasn't the same person I was when the relationship started.
Β Therefore I was forced to end everything by accepting and realizing that the person who was with me was never going to change, he was like that and would always be like that. This made me understand that things should never be forced or imposed. Everything should flow on its initiative, out of love, empathy, and fraternity with the other, if I see that I hurt that loved one, I look for ways to improve my way of being, I do not keep doing the same thing causing harm again and again.
Β Also, there was a time when I heard a legend about a red thread. It is said that no matter the time, space, or circumstances that life has in store for you, if that person is for you, he or she will arrive at some point when it is needed. So this thread can stretch, shrink, stretch, and even tangle but it will never break.
Β So I cling to that belief and I refuse to believe that there isn't someone who would want to be by my side, just as I am, with my flaws and my virtues. To be honest, I am very, very tired I would even say exhausted of listening to so many people telling me "If the man of your life hasn't come along it's because you're not ready and you don't love yourself enoughβ.
Β How can you say something like that to someone? Don't those who are single deserve to be loved? Are they born with something bad and therefore repel others? I don't think so. Everyone is worthy of being loved, no matter how much or how little you love yourself, that is, one thing has nothing to do with the other.
Β Because in the end a relationship is shaped by work, effort, growth, dedication, and mutual evolution. That is the secret to a fruitful, long-term relationship that lasts for decades. They are people who stick together no matter what, they are aware of what it means to live with someone different or similar, they know their flaws and learn to cope with the bad times. It's as simple as that.
Β I have been single for 8 years. And it was last year that I dared to try something with someone who just wanted to hang out, while I was looking for something serious. I am currently still single and still working on myself to heal the wounds left by this guy and many other people who sought me out just because they needed something from me.
Β This time like this has made me learn a lot about myself and also to heal old wounds that have occurred not only in my adulthood but also in my childhood. There are many things and although I would love to make this evolution with someone else, who knows how to accompany me and accompany me in the process, for me it would be ideal but for now, I have to continue doing it alone. In the meantime, I do not lose faith and hope that someone will come into my life who is worth sharing a lot of time.
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Β Usually when I'm having a really bad day, what makes me laugh the most is watching memes and funny videos on Facebook. I also tend to steal smiles in between my tears with my doggies' occurrences, they know when I'm sad and look for ways to force me to laugh and make me feel better. That's why I love them so much.
Β It also helps me a lot to listen to music with positive lyrics and messages. That helps me focus on the fact that it's just a bad time, everything has a solution, that life is beautiful and my life is important. If none of the above works, I look for a good horror or suspense movie to help me calm those negative thoughts about myself. And if it's really bad the way I'm feeling I look to talk to my best friends. They always know how to make me feel better.
So far I leave my participation, I hope you enjoyed reading it. Let me know what you think in the comments, I love reading them! π
Until my next post!π
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| Front Cover Image | DeepL |
| Couple Watching a Lake | CANVA |
| Couple Walking on the Beach | Grammarly Extension for English corrections |
| Lone Woman looking at a Lake | LanguageTool for Spanish corrections |
| Arms Linked with Red Thread | |
| Woman and Man with Red Thread | |
| Seated Woman with Red Thread | |
| Girl Smiling and Looking at her Phone | |
| Girl Sleeping with her Dog | |
| Friends Laughing in Black & White | |
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