Refocusing, Realigning, and Re-Prioritizing

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Since January, I've noticed my spending has been a little less organised than I'd like. Not me who has been conscious and always managing my money, now found myself going into impulse spending; not actually on myself this time around but into dashing out every moment without looking back like some sort of a Father Christmas thing?

The truth is that I have been so tempted to make purchases for other people and when I looked back, I realised how quickly those small costs add up and how they can pull me further from my bigger goals, like planning for retirement. This realisation has made it a quick one for me to take a step back and reassess my finances. I'm re-orienting my priorities, re-organizing my budget and making a commitment to re-prioritise what truly matters.

I've been thinking a lot about the future lately. I said to myself, "I do need an accountability partner." This is because this would make everything faster for me, and for those things, I don't think of, it would be easier to have someone help in reminding me of what to do, how to do it and making sure everything is going as well as I'd wanted.


Where do I even need this accountability, more like a great transformation to me?

One of those topics that I do not give time to think about because I'd brush it aside thinking there is more time, but how old am I again? I keep asking and trying to remind myself that time is always running at full speed. I always knew I would retire one day, but I'd never sat down to think about what that actually meant for me. Then recently, my sister and I started discussing our financial goals and dreams for retirement, including different investment options we're considering.

"This is my accountability partner", I said, because I was sure she would do great and one I could trust to always remind me of the goals we are building.


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This journey towards planning for retirement has been an eye opener especially when I think about it through my minimalist perspective. For me, minimalism is all about simplifying every area of my life including my financial approach. Realizing how a minimalist mindset is helping me in ways I hadn't even imagined is always a great opportunity for me.

So, instead of feeling overwhelmed by all the investment options or pressured to quickly reach a certain financial milestone, I'm able to prioritize what truly matters. A reminder in this minimalism journey is to keep things straightforward and prioritize what will bring values that last, rather than getting caught up in distractions with material stuff or short-term gains.

With minimalism, I am feeling this transformation by shifting how I think about spending, being more intentional with every purchase, and making it easier to save. Doing this would make me believe I am building a future I will be grateful for.

Saving with purpose doesn't feel like a sacrifice because I know I am working towards something meaningful. With my sister's discussion, I feel transformed knowing there is a sense of freedom that I am not in this alone. We are sharing insights, learning together and holding each other accountable.

Now, each decision I make is focused on building a future that is so secure and a retirement I can feel confident about.


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I do need an accountability partner.

Just be sending it all to my account number, Princess. Simple.

You know, I never think of retirement. It's beginnerment that bothers me more. It's like I need to become your neighbour sharp. But it's really good you're being this intentional. It's inspiring.

Just be sending it all to my account number, Princess. Simple.

Hahaha 😀 I will think about it.
I never think of that too until my sister opened my eyes to see why it's good to start preparing early for it.
Thank you, Jay.

Indeed, this is an eye-opener for me and I'm sure for as many that will come across this post.

Well done

Thank you, sis 😘

You're welcome

It's never too early to start saving! I relate to this, as this isn't something easy for me either (and I also get distracted by spending for others!). I find it helps to just put something away at the beginning of the month, or whenever you get your paycheck - that way, you don't have to keep thinking about it constantly throughout the month. Anyway, it sounds like you have a grip on things :)

Yes, never too early and not too late to start saving. Yea, that's another best way not to think too much about it - stacking away some amount after every paycheck and everything would be easier. Thank you, @honeydue I appreciate your great comment.

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It's my pleasure. Thank you 😊

I love your transformation journey and idea. Sometimes when we want to help people we go all out forgetting that if we go broke we won’t even be able to help ourselves then.

It’s a good thing that you are reconsidering this and if God wills, there will come a time when you can do as much good as you want.

I wish you all the best in your endeavor mama 🥰

Yes, exactly, Hope. That time will surely come, God's willing. But for now, we just need to be careful when giving so we don't go beyond our capacity. For now, taking it slow is fine. Thank you for your kind words. I appreciate 🙏

That’s right mama, it’s always good to be wise in things like this because it is sometimes hard to draw the line.

It’s my pleasure stopping by mama ❤️

This is such a wonderful realization of important stuff. I wish you and your sister the best in your endeavors 💗

Amen 🙏
Thank you, FG.

It is very thoughtful of you to consider your retirement at an early stage. Just stick to the goals, it will unravel. A motivating one indeed

Yes, I believe so. Thank you 💯

I just realized that I have an accountability partner without even knowing he is an accountability partner. Oh so that’s the term for it.

And is it weird that I thought about retirement even before completing school? It’s really okay to start saving towards it at an early age. You never know…

Also, please put your one and only BG in that retirement benefit🙂‍↔️

Hahaha. Yes, that's the term for that...accountability partner. One who will always remind and encourage you on your goals and ensuring you achieve the best.

Yea, if I would tell someone younger than me something important, it is to start preparing for retirement, at least setting aside some chunks would help.

Also, please put your one and only BG in that retirement benefit🙂‍↔️

Hahaha. Okay, I will think of that my beautiful BG² 😄

See Princess I am managing now you still want to follow me and drag her? Shey you have @hopestylist???

Why can’t I have both☹️

Leave Princess for me so that people will not gather for the both of us. 😑

It's like I need to start thinking ahead ohh, but shey Nigeria will even allow someone to save for retirement like this?😭😭

Because, it's my savings that is saving me now.

Hahaha 😀
We just have to try. No harm in trying, right? God will surely help us

Oh wow! Guess I wrote about my accountability partner without even knowing it. Thank you Princess for this enlightening piece 😍

Hehehe. Oya pay me for the enlightenment 😒😀

Meet @vickoly. He's responsible for me.

You see that dashing out money to people? That's one hell of a reckless expenditure.

You are right. We just need to wise in doing things so we don't end up becoming broke while in the process of helping others.