THE DILEMMA OF HAVING YOUR DAUGHTER IMPREGNATED…

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I have been in this world long enough to know many things about life and its various and numerous uncertainties. When it comes to life, so many things are unpredictable, and because we all are guests in this world it is quite expected of us to expect different challenges. This is a world where happiness and sadness is intertwined, different people different challenges, coupled with a thousand and one dilemmas...


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If only we could travel back to the 17th and 18th century, life was easy to an extent back then, back then things were pretty easy and efficient unlike this century we are now, including the men, women, teenager and children of then…

When we talk about the children of this generation, especially the youths and teenagers of nowadays. The youth and teenagers of nowadays are the talk of the town, they aren't just ordinary citizens again, they are now called the Gen z baddies. The best definition of the gen z baddies of this century is bad and unruly, the teenagers of this century are the rulers of the century…

A big shoutout to every good parents out there for their hard work and endless efforts towards making their children a good human being and also for making them a good influence to the society and world at large…

Whenever i see good parents training their kids in the right way, i just can’t help but bless them from my heart, and that is because I know how hard it is to train a child, we haven’t even talked about the extremely stubborn kids of this generation. When it comes to parenting, i have seen many parents parent their children especially the ones in their teenage years in the very best way but because of different factors like peer pressure and lack of contentment they end up getting involved in the wrong things to survive. I have also seen parents who go extra miles to make sure their children never go astray and because of the intense discipline they end up becoming the pride of their parents…


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When a child refuses to yield to the teachings and training of their parents, he or she is bound to face the consequences at some point in life, the consequences of their behavior is what they will have to deal with in the future…

Moving on into what i have for you all today, let’s divert into something different a little bit…

In a case where a female child got pregnant while seeking admission into the university. What would i do as a parent?…

Hmmm, this is indeed a very tough question with a much more complex way of answering. I am not yet a parent but then i can picture how devastating such news would be for any parent who loves their child. Words will fly, insults will go round, there might be hitting in some cases but then i can understand how it feels to be disappointed by one’s child…


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I can’t really be certain about what I would do if i was the parent of that child, my daughter getting pregnant while preparing for the university is a big disappointment to me, as a parent i will never be happy with her. I will be angry, i will insult her as her father, i might hit her but then i still can’t say. An event like this will shatter any true parent…

There is nothing i will do to her after my vexation has been expressed, the deed has been done and there is nothing to be done. I will never agree to an abortion so aborting the baby is totally out of the question. First thing first, she will have to go bring the man responsible for the pregnancy. As her father i need to know who is responsible and how he plans to take care of the mother and her child…

That’s the first thing i will do as a parent, the second thing is to put a stop to her university preparation, she is going to be at home throughout the duration of her pregnancy. She will be under my roof. The deed has been done, i won’t kill her because she got impregnated, but then she will face the consequences of her action. I will make sure the father of the baby takes full responsibility of the baby…


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Once the 9 months are up and she has delivered the baby then we can now plan the next line of action, but then she has to get married to the the who impregnated her, she will only marry the father of the child if he is not my age mate…

In summary, After the child is old enough to be left at home, she will start preparing for the university again because the certificate is a must…

In conclusion, she has to complete her education and bag her degree. The deed has been done, she now has to live as a mother for life and i a grandfather for life. She will marry the father of her child if only he is not old enough to be her father and also must be responsible enough to cater for his wife and child…

 THANKS FOR READING…