Hello everyone and welcome to another exciting week.Am quin Lizzy in this week hive naija community I would be discussing about the struggles we usually face in the family.
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Family struggles is what each and every family pass through to have a better family,the struggle to be financially stable and happy is indeed a reoccurring decimal.In a family ofcourse it's made up of children and kids.In my opinion family struggles should not be made visible to the child in order to enable a good mental health.Children are meant to be taken care of and provided for making them aware of the struggle the family is passing through would not be a good choose to make cause the are kids the would not understand all this and the struggle would make them grow up very fast,this would indeed to a unfulfilled childhood.
Family struggles can come in different ways,from the financial strive to live a happy life to building a happy and complete family.Divorce is one of the struggle which will affect the kids in conern emotional amd which can really lead to making them feel unloved and cared for.This can also cause psychological issues.
The family struggles in the financial way really eat deep,it affects both the parents and the child cause money is needed for the family upkeep.This can cause the spouse involved to start overthinking and even going to the extent of drinking away their sorrow which would just add up with the problem cause it just relieve for the time being.The right thing to do is to keep up with the hardwork and let positivity win cause everything in life has to do with time.
Family struggles can also come in a form where parents shows favoritism to a particular child.Although parents are also human and there will be a kid which you would love more than the rest,but when it becomes bad is when you show it ti the face of the children that this is yoir best and the others feel belittle and unwanted.
Keeping the struggle away from the child is the best decision to take.Just as you know the are just kids and would actually have no power to resolve or solve the matter instead it will just emotional break and drain them.
When it comes to the part of divorce it is indeed what cannot be kept a secret cause it can be noticed,when the child starts leaving with only one of the parents and the care and love is just coming from one of the parents then there would be question and this can go a long way to emotionally stress the child cause there will be longing of love from both parents indeed parent should try their best to avoid divorce.
In my opinion the right time kids should be aware of the family struggles should be between the teenage and adult stage,at this stage the would already have the ability and capability to be able to understand the situation,others can even provide solutions for example in a family where there is disagreement between the parent a sensible child can sit the parent down and the settle them at this point making them aware of what is really happening to the family would make things easy to cope with, especially the parents when the know that their children are also doing their veat for the family.Thanks for stopping by my blog.
