Not every fight is worth fighting

in #hive-17687416 days ago

l enjoys it when i am fighting to improve myself, but I do not queue ln for the physical fighting, speaking of fighting generally, i do not like it and as well, i do not have strength for that, because l might get myself beating up severely.

Although I did engage in the physical fights ln those times, but growing up to become an adult, l find out that there is a real fights and that has nothing to do with this one of receiving punches.

On the fight l queue ln for, l do not received punches on lt, but I think that the everyday fight for survival ls enough, so lt doesn't leave a room for me to go elsewhere and look for troubles.

Therefore, does that mean l have never fought the physical fight of receiving punches before?

To be frank, I have had a lot of fights of receiving punches, but all were ln those times I didn't know l shouldn't have, because lnstead of me to be wasting my strength then, lt should have been really so good l stay fit and gather up my strength for the real fight of making ends meet.

l have met people who said the fights for ends meet ls too much for them and they wish to be John Cena, l will laugh, because they do not know that even me as well, sometimes, I wished to be Rey Mysterio so that I can be unbeaten every time.

l recalled when I fought with a friend because he got angry, since he was not selected in our game, the deal was, he did not know that game very well, and people didn't want him to enter their side, and eventually make them to loose.

l felt for him for that, but he was not the only person who were not selected, other people were there, so they wanted him to form his team, because more people were still coming to exercise.

But he got angry and tried to stopped the game, I did not like what he did, but It happened that he already served that punch for anyone who was going to get closer and plead with him.

Therefore as l got closer to him, he served me that punch, l felt the heat from his hands and l have to punch back, l never knew he was ready for a fight and that was lt, l got beat up and l beaten him up as well.

The deal is none of us who act ln that manner would want to try a thing like that again, because we have grown and we have known how to handle scenario better and not to summarize ln a fight.

l am not too of a peaceful man, but lf l had an argument with someone, l will make sure that I dialogue before I leave that place, because I would not want to think about it some other time, and lf l wrong at a time, l will apologize.

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Yeah fighting is childish I wonder why some adult still engage in it

People who engage in lt, hardly control their temper, and ln that manner, what they need ls someone who can explain to them to take things without a fight and find a way to control their temper, then with time, they will follow up

Yea Truth