The sounds of plate in the dining was just like an instrumental, but he didn't bother, he let it go, and was taking things the way he sees, i realized he did not like it because, I was seeing the look on his face.
On my own, I have read about table manners and watch youtube videos, l hope to get it right someday, as l continue to read about it.
The deal is, that of the manners at the table ls understandable, because it is not today's matter, he can remember how l used to react even in those days in the house.
But what was so unbearable was the light, he thoughts l was going to switched it off, just as lt took place the other time he came around, but i was not sleeping without light anymore in the apartment at night, lt was a new way of me to be staying awake and since i fell asleep and leave the light on at times, at any day the light are not on, in the apartment, lt was becoming a big challenge that i have to solved.
So with the visitor around, l was having a hard time dealing with what I like to do, because my visitor did not like to keep light on at night when he was sleeping.
Therefore, as l have to make him comfortable and feel at home, l was leaving the light the way he wants it, in most of the night. l recalled that there were times I forget that light at night was a thing my visitor did not like, and I switched lt on, the deal is, it doesn't take more minutes, I remember that I was with someone.
Where the personality we have do not suit the environment is, when we are with somebody, maybe, that person has not been seeing us for a while, he/she has forgotten a bit about what we like, or the new lifestyle we have adopted.
But l do not let lt become a big deal, lf l am with someone who do not like that certain personality i do, what I will do is that, l will try as much as possible to reduce it when he/she is around, so that the place can be conducive for us.
The good part is that, reducing that personality we find out the person beside us do not like will make us to stop the lifestyle, and a perfect advantage if it was bad.
l have stop keeping light on at night as someone close told me he does not like it, the deal is, when l was alone, i did not still want to be leaving the light on when it is night, and even right now I do not do it, yet this was something l was not considering i will stop.
l realized that we need not to be static in things, so that we might not be left behind.