This book honestly felt like a manual for encouraging disturbing and bad behavior among the male population.
Not only do I find the majority of points in this book grossly exaggerated and very disturbing, I do not see any reason why this book majorly focused on reiterating subconsciously how important the sexual needs of men are, and not realizing that in comparison to women, men's sexual fantasies are actually not that wild.
At least, the author doesn't shy away from the fact, that women are the gatekeepers of sex.
"What Men Don't Want Women To Know".
What about what women don't want men to know ?
Without bias, when I first picked up this book, I expected a dive into various aspects of the male gender I might not be privy to. I do not deny the fact that male sexuality was one of them, but I did not expect it to form the entirety of the plot's development.
This books talks about a look into the mind of the male gender.
The author believes that the male gender desires women in the most primal ways, even more than they let on, and that they have every right to do so.
Honestly, without even going deep into the plot, this book made me really pissed off.
The entire plot made men look like total assholes with no restraint, and women like people who exist only to serve the primal fetish desires of these men.
It made me wonder really, if this was intended to be a self help book, because trust me if it was, it flopped terribly in achieving the effect the author hoped it would in the mind of readers.
Surely there are men who this book apply to, men who believe that every woman that they find slightly attractive should be objects of their sexual desires.
Men, who infact believe, that instead of responding to the fine-faced, polite, courteous air hostess that serves them, they should immediately ogle at her cleavage, and conjure immoral thoughts of making out with her in the cockpit.
Do you picture how that looks? Very absurd right?. Yes, that is exactly what this books suggests, because of course, for some unimaginable reason men are wired to be sexually charged, unrestrained animals.
In addition, I feel really bad for the men who identify themselves with this book.
As I earlier said, I expected this book to cover different aspect of the male gender.
How do men handle tough situations that they do not want women to know about?
How do they control the corridors of power that sometimes makes it so difficult for women to permeate?
Do you understand how disappointed I must have felt when I realized that instead of learning about that, I have to learn how to keep a man, a human I might add, on a leash, so he doesn't go around sleeping with any woman he finds attractive.
Honestly I couldn't even care, because in as much as we try to deny it, when it comes to sexual fantasies, men cannot even begin to fathom the extreme dirty thoughts that lives rent free in women's head.
Furthermore, any guy who thinks about sex first, the moment he comes across a very attractive woman, is a terribly disgusting human being with no self control, and shouldn't be kept.
Throw him to the streets where he belongs.
Many readers have said that this book made them despise men.
For me, this book made me rethink the few minutes of my life I used in reading it.
Not only was this the worst book I have read in a long time, it is the worst representation of the male gender I have ever seen.
Do I recommend this book? Sure, if you want to waste a few minutes of your life getting tips on how to be a sexual object for your man, so he doesn't have to look too much at your secretary or your friends.
However, if you're the type that consistently seeks male validation with absolutely no sense of self worth, then this book is the perfect read for you.