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So, what exactly defines good sex and bad sex? I believe each person has their own personal definition since it involves a variety of emotional, physical, and even cultural factors.
Good sex, for me, is like a dance with perfect choreography. It's the harmony between two people. There's an exchange of good energy, caresses, and glances, like a true promise being fulfilled. Every movement, expression, and desire is mutual. It’s when time seems to pass differently, and there's a connection that goes far beyond the physical. Communication is clear, but it doesn’t necessarily have to be verbal. There is trust between the people involved. When there’s intimacy and respect, sex becomes an experience that surpasses mere physical pleasure. It’s an expression of love and connection.
On the other hand, bad sex results from a lack of communication, emotional disconnection, and misaligned expectations. It’s a mechanical act where the desire of one person overpowers the other. Insecurity and discomfort dominate the moment. Bad sex leaves scars that aren’t always physical but emotional, and they take time to heal. It can involve consent given out of obligation or fear of displeasing. What should have been a pleasurable moment turns painful.
I have experienced both contexts. There were times when it was an explosion of good feelings and wonderful sensations that set my whole body on fire, making my heart beat erratically. But there are also memories I wish I didn’t have, where it was just a failed attempt at connection. A bitter reminder that body and soul aren’t always in harmony, and it’s not worth trying to please or meet someone else’s expectations in exchange for nonexistent pleasure.
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