There are a lot of times that I am angry at my friend for reasons best known to me.
For a good number of times I don't agree with her sense of judgement on a particular thing or topic.
We can argue about something and oftentimes I've always been at the winning end, and this may not necessarily mean I am always right, but because she tends to give up rather quickly for peace to reign 😂💔
She will just shut up and lock up, I know whenever she does that I don't feel good about it but anyway, it is not my fault cause I have this convincing potential and I could literally make you see from my perception, and except you are guided enough, you would likely just give up the fight and this is what she my friend does at times.
She dislikes unnecessary arguments and just let me win many times lol.
There are days we could go for weeks and not talk to each other but whenever we get to talk, we communicate like we've not seen each other for decades lol.
There used to be times when it was never so, if one doesn't reach another in a week or more, it felt like we were having a misunderstanding or something was wrong somewhere, but this year has taught us, especially me that not reaching out to a friend for a few days or weeks doesn't necessarily mean you guys are not on good terms with each other.
To an extent, I've come to this understanding, and not speaking with my friend for days or even weeks doesn't make our friendship any less important or valuable.
We simply understand time and how everyone is dealing with their own life issues, and if one could reach out once in a while then it really does mean a lot.
So instead of judging or holding it against each other, we just simply understand the silent and act maturely whenever we get to speak.

But what exactly is my main drive in all of this? So today someone asked; what's the name of this your friend? and that is because I kept mentioning her every now and then in our conversation, so the person had to ask if she was my best friend.
The response was NO, she is my closest friend.
Well, from inception, she knows I don't have best friends or a best friend, because I just don't like giving people a name tag especially when it has to do with besties.
I am very fine with telling someone, oh she is my friend, he is my friend but nothing as best friend, cause as a matter of fact I believe people have individual roles to play in our lives and though I place some above the others, what you could simply say, my list of favourites, I don't take any of them for granted and because of the individual roles they play in my life, I certainly do not have A BEST!.
We are all humans and you can agree with me that at some point we don't agree to another's person opinion about something or their perception of something, so why create problems for yourself?
I rather let people know the length or how much someone means to me than place tags on them.
So again I will say this, I've got a pretty amazing small circle of friends and this one here is my closest of them all, she has been more than a friend to me and my entire family.
Funny how almost everyone including my extended family knows just her as my female friend 😂💔
So this one here isn't just a friend, she is family and I am her lovest love 😌🫰

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   24 December ~ Tuesday