Tears is a way to express the sadness we felt. When we lost something special, losing a love ones or being left behind by people who's important to us. We cry to express our feelings towards an unwanted or terrifying situation. GOODBYES, word that is somewhat give us both negative and positive vibes defer on the situation. There's some "Goodbyes" that not that big deal ,in a way of wishing a luck to a friend and there's some "Goodbyes" that is hard to accept especially when you are not that ready like DEATH.
"Those we love never truly leave us. There are things that death cannot touch." - Jack Throne
Valuable memories in special moments that last deeper and longer it is the only souvenir we got to our relatives who already resting in peace. May I ask you a question, have you experience losing someone special? Have you properly say goodbye to him/her?
December 2,2022 early in the mornings my neighbors having a loud chitchat outside that seems there's a collision. I thought that there's a fight or something. Actually we live in an open area it's a relocation site so everyone is aware on what's happening on the neighborhood.
Out of my curiosity, I did my bed routine and rush outside. Then they they're having a talk about the father of uncle Jeff who died earlier of that day, how it happen and what's the situation. Then my auntie told to me everything, and I was like "Oh my, really? Yesterday I saw him sitting on the balcony."
In life a lot of unbelievable things happen, and when death comes there's nothing you can do but to be ready even you are not.
Uncle Jeff said, that in the last moment of his father, he was able to say goodbye to them telling them that he will go to a far away place and he hug uncle Jeff . In life we are lucky enough to say goodbye in time.
"Remember me and smile,for it's better to forget than remember me and cry."
- Dr. SUESS
In given a chance, hoping that everyone can have a moment to say goodbye in their love ones, that can have a closure, that the situation can be accepted in both sides. That no more tears, no regrets and no blaming of oneself happened. In this way we will remember them in a good side.
"Goodbye may seem forever. Farewell is like the end, but in my heart is the memory and there you will always be".
-Walt Disney
May we lost the person that is important but the golden memories you've share with them in special times will remain like a treasure that no one can steal. Time may takes us apart but the memory brings it together and make us connected that become our motivation in moving forward in terms of losing because that is life. No matter what you must go on. I remember the sayings that our ancestors used to say,
"When you lose something, you gain. When you lost someone, there's another coming.
