What the heck...
Like how would you mean you had a boring Christmas?
This was what a friend said to me after I told him that my Christmas was just like every other day apart from the large food portion and of course extra large meat plus veggies to accompany the whole ceremonial rites. Lol
Other than that, there is nothing special to accompany the day and truth be told I was able to make peace with the fact that maybe I could start enjoying a boring life instead of the average bubbly and popping lifestyle that has engulfed almost every young adult's mind.
My friend feels because I have some spare cash at hand to ball out means I have to, even when I necessarily do not need to do so. After all, for one reason it was usually my friends who made me want to go all out for them. I think I just like to make people feel good when im around but when it's only me im always good even when I dont feel good.
You can call it emotional intelligence but I think it's something I've learned from my mom. This I believe is the person that made me hold on even when I wasn't given a chance or hope to keep pushing. Which I did and after that I now rarely get involved with everybody, unlike in the past where im all up in everybody’s business while mine was left unattended.
With my new life adventures and realizations, I now like to do what I know im capable of doing over and over again without causing any or my ch harm to me in any area. This December to some, is a time to go to parties and spend all that they have.
Somehow it's now like a ritual to earn from January up until December just to ball it all out. Well, I won't be boarding that Detty-December boat this year and I actually dont even have a choice because, after a long while of being away from home, this is the second Christmas I'd be spending with them after the lockdown started. Yes, life happens and man has to make more moves before he finally improves more on himself. And men dont always do that at home.
Well, that's that for that, i once heard about a detty december tale that leaves everyone with January becoming the longest month. I think I would like to see what happens next year in January. Like a popular tiltoker would say “y’all will cry” and that goes to my friends who I know are balling it all out with their savings.
See you next time
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