[ENG-SPA] Sense of belonging β€’||β€’ Emotion of growth and self-esteem πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

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Hola amigos de Hive, nuevamente me encuentro entre ustedes para traer un nuevo tema a mi colecciΓ³n de publicaciones en esta comunidad que tanto me gusta, es por eso que hoy les venga hablar sobre el "Sentido de pertenencia", ese sentimiento que nos abraza para ser libre y a su vez sentir empatΓ­a por todo lo que se mueve en Γ©l. Para esta parte de la publicaciΓ³n quiero hablar mΓ‘s que todo de mi experiencia personal y lo que podemos hacer para pertenecer a ellos, como asΓ­ tambiΓ©n explicar todo lo relacionado a un sentimiento tan complicado como este, que muchos no lo entienden y poco lo dan a entender, todo esto es desde mi punto de vista.

El sentido de pertenencia es un sentimiento que vamos adoptando todos los seres humanos en el lugar o espacio donde nos estamos desarrollando, de tal modo poder interactuar de manera segura y espontΓ‘nea sobre cualquier tema que allΓ­ se pueda manifesta, asΓ­ mismo podemos empezar a demandar nuestra propia identidad sobre aquellos temas en dΓ³nde nos vamos a desarrollar. Desde mi punto de vista considero que el sentido de pertenencia es ese lugar, ese momento en el que solo nosotros sabemos lo que estamos haciendo y buscamos el mΓ©todo para fluir de la manera mΓ‘s positiva y adecuada, tener sentido de pertenencia nos hace seres humanos mΓ‘s autΓ©ntico y personas con gran coraje en la vida.

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Hello friends of Hive, again I am among you to bring a new topic to my collection of publications in this community that I like so much, that's why today I come to talk about the "Sense of belonging ", that feeling that embraces us to be free and in turn feel empathy for everything that moves in it. For this part of the publication I want to talk mostly about my personal experience and what we can do to belong to them, as well as explain everything related to a feeling as complicated as this, that many do not understand it and little give it to understand, all this is from my point of view.

The sense of belonging is a feeling that all human beings adopt in the place or space where we are developing, in such a way that we can interact in a safe and spontaneous way on any subject that can be manifested there, so we can begin to demand our own identity on those issues where we are going to develop. From my point of view I consider that the sense of belonging is that place, that moment in which only we know what we are doing and we look for the method to flow in the most positive and adequate way, having a sense of belonging makes us more authentic human beings and people with great courage in life.





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❀️ The sense of belonging in human beings ❀️


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Desde que nacemos vamos tomando forma en aquellos grupos en donde tenemos sentido de pertenencia, es decir que el primer grupo en el que nos podemos desenvolver sin ningΓΊn tipo de problema es la familia ya que este es un lugar en el que nos sentimos libres, con mucha confianza y podemos expresarnos de la mejor manera, es por eso que la familia se convierte en el pilar fundamental para el sentido de pertenencia de muchas personas. Muchas son las cosas en donde tenemos sentido de pertenencia como por ejemplo: la naciΓ³n en la que nacemos, esto es algo en el que nos sentimos amados en confianza y podemos expresar desde nuestro corazΓ³n todas aquellas inquietudes o admiraciΓ³n que podemos llegar a sentir por la misma, asΓ­ mismo podemos tambiΓ©n hacer sentir a esas personas parte de nosotros ya sea con nuestro comportamiento nuestra forma de pensar y con toda las actitudes que se desarrollan, el sentido de pertenencia es donde nuestras metas y logros son valorados de una forma gigante para todos.

A lo largo de nuestras vidas vamos tomando sentido de pertenencia en otros grupos en donde nos sentimos bastante cΓ³modos, como por ejemplo: cuando entramos a la primaria ya que es el primer grupo que tenemos y en el que nos sentimos muy ameno, igualmente cuando estamos en la universidad, cuando tenemos un grupo en la iglesia o simplemente cuando tenemos un grupo de mejores amigas y que nos sentimos que somos felices, sabemos y entendemos que tenemos un sentido de pertinencia contra ellas o contra esos grupos en el que nos vemos reflejado como personas pilares y fundamentales de ellos. El sentido de pertenencia no es mΓ‘s que esa consolidaciΓ³n entre varios miembros para llegar a un fin o para seguir aprendiendo en la vida, es como una hermandad que hacemos en la que tenemos que ser leales y fieles.

En mi vida he llegado a tener muchas comunidades con sentido de pertenencia como lo fue cuando estaba en el ballet, ese era un grupo en donde me sentΓ­a segura, feliz y tenΓ­a muchas amigas, en ese lugar mis logros se pudieron determinar de una manera eficaz, sin ser juzgada y mucho menos intimidada, para mΓ­ esto era mΓ‘s que un sentido de pertenencia, era sin lugar a dudas mi segunda casa donde me sentΓ­a feliz, con el tiempo esto se fue extendiendo ya que Γ©ramos mΓ‘s unidos, pero despuΓ©s crecimos y cada quien tomΓ³ su camino, aunque aΓΊn seguimos en contacto con todas. En el tiempo de universitaria tuve un grupo bastante bueno con el que nos ayudamos todos de una manera genial, en ese momento supe que tenΓ­a sentido de pertenencia con ellos ya que para mΓ­ era un grupo excelente en el que podΓ­a expresarme de la mejor manera, ademΓ‘s eras files y leales entre nosotros mismos, para mΓ­ estos grupos de estudios marcaron mi vida para mejor y hoy soy feliz por haberlos.

Since we are born we are taking shape in those groups where we have a sense of belonging, that is to say that the first group in which we can develop without any problem is the family because this is a place where we feel free, with confidence and we can express ourselves in the best way, that is why the family becomes the cornerstone for the sense of belonging of many people. There are many things where we have a sense of belonging such as: the nation in which we are born, this is something in which we feel loved in confidence and we can express from our heart all those concerns or admiration that we can feel for it, likewise we can also make those people feel part of us either with our behavior our way of thinking and with all the attitudes that are developed, the sense of belonging is where our goals and achievements are valued in a giant way for everyone.

Throughout our lives we take a sense of belonging in other groups where we feel quite comfortable, such as when we enter elementary school as it is the first group we have and in which we feel very pleasant, also when we are in college, when we have a group at church or simply when we have a group of best friends and we feel that we are happy, we know and understand that we have a sense of relevance against them or against those groups in which we see ourselves reflected as pillars and fundamental people of them. The sense of belonging is nothing more than that consolidation among several members to reach an end or to continue learning in life, it is like a sisterhood that we do in which we have to be loyal and faithful.

In my life I have come to have many communities with a sense of belonging as it was when I was in the ballet, that was a group where I felt safe, happy and had many friends, in that place my achievements could be determined in an effective way, without being judged and much less intimidated, for me this was more than a sense of belonging, it was undoubtedly my second home where I felt happy, over time this was extended as we were more united, but then we grew and everyone went their own way, although we are still in contact with all of them. When I was a university student I had a very good group with which we all helped each other in a great way, at that time I knew that I had a sense of belonging with them because for me it was an excellent group where I could express myself in the best way, also you were files and loyal among ourselves, for me these study groups marked my life for the better and today I am happy to have had them.



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ΒΏComo ha influido el sentido de pertenencia en mΓ­?

How has the sense of belonging influenced me?




Desde que tengo uso de razΓ³n y me siento una mujer feliz y plena con un autoestima a un buen nivel tengo sentido de pertenencia, es decir de aquellos que voy obteniendo en la vida ya que desde que nacemos tenemos sentido de pertenencia con nuestra familia, pero realmente mi sentido ha aumentado ya que soy una persona muy familiar, tengo amigos y me gusta mucho estar integrada a muchos grupos de mi interΓ©s y en donde me siento feliz, asΓ­ mismo pasa cuando realizΓ³ seminarios, talleres, cursos y demΓ‘s ya que son lugares en donde se que tengo la capacidad de estar e integrarme con nuevas personas con objetivos a fin. En mi vida el sentido de pertenencia estΓ‘ presente en cada momento ya que soy dueΓ±a de mis decisiones, de mi vida y de aquellas personas que estΓ‘n a mi lado como lo es mi hijo, aunque sΓ© que en un tiempo ya no estarΓ‘ a mi lado ya que pertenece a mi por un tiempo, aΓΊn asΓ­ estoy feliz de tener ese sentido de pertenencia, en estos pΓ‘rrafos les estoy hablando de mi percepciΓ³n de las cosas en el sentido de pertenencia.

Todos los seres humanos tienen sentido de pertenencia, quien no los tenga deberΓ­a de evaluar su vida y su entorno ya que esto es primordial en el ser humano, porque desde que nacemos tenemos eso tachado ya que la familia es lo primero, mΓ‘s cuando somos esperados con la mayor y mejor felicidad del mundo, es por eso que esto se vuelve ideal para ser el primer sentido que tengamos. Cuando topamos con un grupo en donde nos sentimos capacitados y amados, esto es lo que se necesita para continuar, tambiΓ©n esos grupos de amigos que se vuelven incondicional, porque a travΓ©s del tiempo estos van tomando forma y vamos adoptando planes a futuro, para el sentido de pertenencia estΓ‘ en todos lados, ya que somos nosotros los jueces para escoger en donde estamos mejor, este ha influido en mi de manera positiva ya que soy una persona capaz de adaptarme a un medio sin problemas.

Since I can remember and I feel like a happy and full woman with a good level of self-esteem, I have a sense of belonging, that is to say, of those that I am obtaining in life since we are born we have a sense of belonging with our family, but my sense has really increased since I am a very familiar person, I have friends and I like to be integrated to many groups of my interest and where I feel happy, the same happens when I do seminars, workshops, courses and others since they are places where I know that I have the ability to be and integrate with new people with objectives in mind. In my life the sense of belonging is present in every moment since I am the owner of my decisions, of my life and of those people who are by my side like my son, although I know that in a while he will no longer be by my side since he belongs to me for a while, I am still happy to have that sense of belonging, in these paragraphs I am talking about my perception of things in the sense of belonging.

All human beings have a sense of belonging, whoever does not have it should evaluate their life and their environment because this is essential in the human being, because since we are born we have that crossed out as the family comes first, especially when we are expected with the greatest and best happiness in the world, that is why this becomes ideal to be the first sense that we have. When we run into a group where we feel empowered and loved, this is what is needed to continue, also those groups of friends that become unconditional, because over time these are taking shape and we are adopting future plans, for the sense of belonging is everywhere, as we are the judges to choose where we are better, this has influenced me in a positive way as I am a person able to adapt to an environment without problems.



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The sense of belonging in my life.


Finalmente les puedo decir que en la vida nosotros nos vamos adaptando al medio que necesitamos y en donde nos vamos a sentir seguros, tambiΓ©n a aquel en que mis logros sean los mΓ‘s aplaudidos desde un punto de vista formal, el sentido de pertenencia deberΓ­a ser una etiqueta con que vamos a interactuar en la vida, dependiendo de nuestras capacidades, tambiΓ©n en el que podemos estar seguros. Este tema es bastante importante y poco se habla de Γ©l, deberΓ­a ser algo concreto que todas las personas podamos manejar y conocer, desde mi punto de vista considero que esto es lo que nos mueve y nos hace incluirnos en la vida de los demΓ‘s para formar logros en comΓΊn, tambiΓ©n en donde estamos felices y seguros.

Gracias a ti por estar aquí y dejarme mucho amor en mis publicaciones 😍

Finally, I can tell you that in life we adapt ourselves to the environment we need and where we will feel safe, also to the one in which our achievements are the most applauded from a formal point of view, the sense of belonging should be a label with which we will interact in life, depending on our capabilities, also in which we can be safe. This topic is quite important and little is said about it, it should be something concrete that all people can handle and know, from my point of view I consider that this is what moves us and makes us include ourselves in the lives of others to form achievements in common, also where we are happy and safe.

Thanks to you for being here and leaving me lots of love in my publications 😍.



Gracias a todos por estar aquΓ­

Thank you all for being here


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Todo el contenido que se encuentra en esta publicaciΓ³n es amplia-mente original del autor, cualquier duda y recopilaciΓ³n del mismo, deben hacer menciΓ³n de mi persona.

All the content that is in this publication is widely original of the author, any doubt and compilation of the same, they should make mention of my person.



  • El texto es original de: @nathyortiz
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It is funny how we casually joke with the phrase `sense of belonging'...It is a very important emotion which extends into a feeling..EVERYONE SHOULD HAVE THIS FEELING OF BELONGING either to our family, friends or common interest

Likewise, it is also something little known and that we confuse a lot, but the important thing is that we can make use of it in our environment.

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Blessings Nathy!

What a lovely post about belonging.

And such heartwarming photos.

I am happy you have been born into a family where you feel free, comfortable and supported. That is the most important thing in life.

I myself missed out on that for many years, and as a result, I had many painful times in life, made poor decisions and did not know how to relate with others very well.

I discovered the only time I felt like I belonged was when I was alone in nature, or alone in the house where I could sing, dance and cry.

Because I lacked a foundation of belonging I felt anxious most of my life.

Nowadays, having spent a lot of time alone in nature, and singing and dancing and crying, and learning to love myself, I have a feeling of belonging, for which I am grateful.

Everyone needs to feel they belong, and nature is one of the best ways to find that feeling if one does not have it in their family. And, of course, singing, dancing, crying and laughing are good medicine too!

Blessings✨