A BEST FRIEND IS BLESSING OF GOD
As blood relations matters to an human being and important to live same as a good friend circle is so needed to share your secrets , express your feelings which are sometimes a family member does not understand , but in that circle of friends there is always a special friend who is most close to your heart. Some relations are of blood but some relations are connected to our soul and emotions. A real friend is someone that you can rely on. You know that they will keep their plans with you. You know that you can rely on them to show up for you when you need it. Real friends are people that have proven they will show up for you in the past and will continue to do so because you are a priority to them.
From my childhood, I always wished for a best friend, in my class fifth I found a friend thought that she is my best friend, giving her priority on my other fellows I thought that she is my best friend forever. I know I was at small age I do very immature things too but in the matter of friendship I was very possessive and guess what I found in return , she left me for my other fellow, this broke my heart.
Fortunately , I had to leave my that school due to my baba promotion, I changed my school, again new fellows, in class sixth no one is so mature to take big steps , so I forgot and moved on with another friend, she was a good friend but when I moved to college she shifted to another college so again I was alone, but I don’t know that someone is waiting for me there… yes there I met my best friend AIMAN FATIMA…
she gave a new way to think, she always treats me like an elder sister. She brings confidence in me, how to enjoy life , how to tease others, and see in the final year of my graduation she is still with me, same as we were in the first year of friendship, today when we were in university, I was telling her that I am going to write about you in my todays post, she literally smiled and said deserve it because I bear you for so many years hahaha.
A best friend will be a constant in your life; they'll reach out to you regularly and they won't hold anything back when you two connect. A best friend should be dependable, trustworthy, honest, and supportive. If someone considers you a best friend, they'll tell you how much you mean to them. And I literally found my best friend in AIMAN.
We are literally moms to each other, especially me, I always used to say don’t do this, don’t eat this , don’t talk to boys, don’t go there etc. she literally got irritate on this but I know what is good for my best friend. Today , some hours ago we have a fight and she is not talking to me , even I don’t want to write about her, but I know we cant sleep before saying sorry to each other. I am waiting for it and believe me she is also waiting. Lets see who go first to bend,
I want to tell all of you guys, a friendship zone is so good for our mental health, you just need to have a search for a true friend, which is complicated I know but we should try atleast.
I hope for best for our friendship, may ALLAH keep all the evil eyes off of our bond, whenever I prayed for myself I always prayed for her first, for her brighter future.