Hello, friends!
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Right from my childhood, I had always been curious about my friendships, especially with my gender. I was introverted and yes I am today. I don't keep plenty of friends and I am very selective and at the same time, not fond of people being clingy but I can do this with my opposite sex. I feel free whenever I am with guys who understand me the way I am and add value to my system to make it better.
Furthermore, I felt that there are hidden treasures that are yet to be unraveled by meeting the right people. I understand that friends were meant to help discover one another's purpose in life. And to help see and walk in the good directives of God.
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From my perspective, Whenever I cling to girls like me, instead of seeing or perceiving positive outcomes, I would see, hatred and anger. I don't know what could be the cause, deep within me I know there is something bigger in me, that arouses their anger, and they want to mar the hidden reputation. When this is discovered, my mind is of that person. I learned that girls talk more than building and it is always a turn-off for me, especially in a negative way. I'm always extremely careful with my gender. They are good around me, and we are still in touch, connected, and related.
I encountered a sister who happens to be my mum's friend. My mum took her as a daughter and took care of her in a worthwhile manner like a mother would do to her biological daughter. Unknowingly to my mother, this friend of hers was plotting evil against her without my mum's knowledge. A woman without a fearless heart, tells all she knows that my Mom is a bad person. My mother would be one to remove money and cook for everyone in the house while, she didn't want to contribute to the culinary activities of the family. However, my mom later traveled to the city to visit her elderly sister, not knowing her friend had become the madam of the house, flirting with my dad. My younger brother related the information to her through phone and she rushed back home. My mother returned, and it seemed the fight grew the more. But her unreasonable fight with my mother did not succeed instead, it affected her and ruined her marriage, that she couldn't amend. She lost everything in the course of the fighting against my mother for the good things she did for her.
Moreover, friends are good and loving but do you see their hearts, nope, until their actions and expressions speak forth, that's when you will know that they never had good intentions about you. Keep friends that will help you see the future. Keep friends that you can correct your mistakes and move forward. Keep friends that you can stay and learn together.
Nevertheless, most of the girls keep friends with their fellow women because of money, and they feel enslaved by money which is not a measure of good friendship. Money might be involved but small, maybe to offer help when they need something important.
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As I said earlier, I don't like plenty of friends and I study my gender before I get closer to them. Even if I am in friendship with them and I realize unworthiness I will easily deviate from her immediately.
Overall, cut ties with people who will influence you negatively. Build genuine relationships and surround yourself with positive people who will help you become what you are supposed to become.
Be positive all the time with friends.
Thank you for reading.
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