The truth exists. Reality exists. Unavoidable facts and events exist.
You must be aware of the realities, inevitable facts, and events that will occur during your marriage as you prepare to get married. Before agreeing to become someone's husband or wife, it's crucial that you are aware of these things.
The main issues with marriage in the twenty-first century are ignorance of the truth, a lack of realism, or a refusal to face reality.
Listen, I'm going to share with you three key things you need to learn to do every day in your marriage.
Before getting married, you should learn these things from your parents.
In all honesty, most people had a rough childhood. You must realize that a partner brings their experiences with and knowledge of their parents into the marriage. This implies that you cannot be distinct from your parents. You cannot deviate from the upbringing and ideology that your parents provided for you. These are facts and events that cannot be changed.
The truth is that you can transform yourself if you're open to learning new things. By renewing your thoughts, God has the power to transform you.
Actually, when you accept Christ as your Savior, God's Word takes on the role of your new parent. That also means that your character, confession, and way of life should be shaped by God's Word.
Bad or inadequate home education is the primary issue in marriage. Family is the source of the world's growing problems, and premarital counseling should cover this topic in depth.
The future husband and wife should learn the value of saying "I'm sorry," "Thank you," and "accepting responsibility" for their conduct or any necessary actions during premarital therapy.
The lack of these three elements might destroy a marriage in a single day. You must use these three strategies every day if you genuinely want to succeed in your marriage and enjoy it.
- I'M SORRY
When you say or do anything that may have upset your spouse or that you know will end your marriage, you are saying "I'm sorry."
The least utilized and most challenging three-letter word in married homes.
Do you know that saying "I'm sorry" to your spouse will do more to mend your relationship than defending yourself will?
You can apologize and give an explanation afterwards. not apologizing after you've already ruined your marriage by using rude language and expressing anger.
Saying "I'm sorry" and "accepting responsibility for an action" are two different things. Although expressing regret does not imply acceptance of blame, it does demonstrate consideration. You are not egotistical. It can also help to settle things down. Most married men and women have utterly failed in this area.
2 THANK YOU
A sense of humor is saying thank you. It's expressing gratitude to your spouse for whatever services or goods they have provided for you.
There are moments when you need to pleasantly thank your partner for being in your life. That's what I always do.
Hear me out: Gratitude can save your marriage. You don't have to feel wonderful to thank your partner for everything.
Thanking someone for a kind deed they performed for you in the past or present has nothing to do with your feelings.
Not being thankful and expressing gratitude to God and to people is a demonic habit. One of the things that has wrecked many happy marriages is this wicked behavior. Oh yes!
Do you know that, outside of your marriage, you should gladly pay for services provided to you and express your gratitude.
Sincerity is a skill that can be taught to others. Despite this, some people have a spirit that cannot be changed. However, show your children how to express gratitude by doing so in front of others who help you.
When you really praise someone for a job well done or a service provided to you, it boosts their confidence.
Hello, this is simple.
3 TAKING ACCOUNT OF RESPONSIBILITY
In marriage, irresponsibility is a serious problem. Many people are unaware of the role they are playing or may have played in their marriage's demise.
I've always maintained that marriage issues are personal, not caused by enemies or outside forces.
Today's marriages have a trouble accepting responsibility for a deed or an action that has to be taken.
The importance of teaching the benefits of accepting responsibility and the risks of not accepting responsibility to the spouse during premarital counseling.
Accept responsibility for the consequences of your actions, my dear, whether you did anything incorrectly or incorrectly, and then make every effort to make things right.
Instead of generating ridiculous excuses and assigning blame, which can ultimately cause your marriage to fail.
In a marriage, excuses, haughtiness, and a refusal to accept criticism and express regret are devastating fires.
I remain your favourite writer, Blackdovy.
