Remembering Molly and Pepper ..
As I sit here, reminiscing about the loss of Molly and Pepper .. I can't help but feel a heavy weight in my heart. It's been three years and five months since Pepper left us, and just four months since Molly departed. The memories flood back, both beautiful and painful, as I navigate through the waves of grief.
In the midst of my reflections .. I've found myself confronted by the ever-present world of social media. Facebook, in particular, has been a bittersweet reminder of the absence of my beloved companions. It seems that every so often, the platform nudges me to share a post, offering up memories from the past and prompting me to provide an update—a "then and now" snapshot, if you will.
It was during one of these moments that the pang of loss struck especially hard. Facebook, in its algorithmic innocence, presented me with a photo of Pepper, followed by an empty space, as if beckoning for a current picture to fill the void. And then, just last week, the same scenario unfolded with Molly. The platform's attempt to evoke nostalgia inadvertently reopened wounds I thought were starting to heal.
The irony of it all is painfully clear.. How can I provide a "now" photo when my cherished companions are no longer with me? The suggestion feels like a cruel twist of fate, a reminder of what I can never recapture. In these moments, it's easy to feel the weight of loss bearing down on me, amplified by the digital world's relentless march forward.
Yet, amidst the sorrow, there's a glimmer of solace to be found. Writing about my feelings, as I'm doing now, serves as a form of release—a cathartic exercise in processing the emotions that threaten to overwhelm me. By putting pen to paper (or rather, fingers to keyboard), I can channel some of that negative energy into something constructive.
Moreover, sharing these thoughts with others who have experienced similar losses can foster a sense of connection and understanding. In a world that often feels fragmented and isolating, finding common ground in our grief can be a source of comfort and solidarity.
So, as I navigate the ever-changing landscape of social media .. I'll hold onto the memories of Molly and Pepper with love and gratitude. Though they may no longer be by my side, their presence lives on in the cherished moments we shared. And in the face of Facebook's well-intentioned reminders, I'll choose to honor their memory in my own way, one heartfelt reflection at a time.
I think I would loos my mind if I wasn't able to write something here on Hive about the loss of my babies. It is also nice that my friends here on the platform are non-judgmental, allowing me to freely speak my mind about what hurts and why it does. I sometimes look back on my writing and think it may be a bit depressing a times. But believe me.. It is helping me to heal. I think if I kept the thoughts bottled up inside, they would eventually turn me cold and miserable.
So thank you for providing me a place to put those feelings into words.
I miss my baby boy and girl something terrible
Everyday
“The loss is as particular and profound as the intimacy, and the depth of mourning it sets off can shock people, for we’re often not fully aware of how many voids the dog has filled until he’s no longer there, no longer filling those spaces in his able, silent way.”
― Caroline Knapp
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