Hello! My dear friends of #family&friends I greet you in this beautiful month wishing you all the best and having a great time in this month of hugs, kisses, acts of affection and love, because it feels like "love is in the air". I love love; those butterflies in my stomach, the waiting for the phone call, the smile as we get dressed up for that special someone, it just makes me sigh and smile Are we on the same wavelength right? π. Today, I come to talk a little about my beautiful love, because it is a love in peace and joy, So join me to answer these questions that I loved when I read them and I must confess that in my mind ran and passed like a movie everything I could write so much that I had to tell:
Describe that person in 3 words.
My JJ is described in more than three words π, so I'll summarise:
β€οΈCaballero: Every princess is treated as she allows; in this case, I love to be treated by a gentleman like him. A calm tone of voice, kind, always asking or opening the door, giving me the last piece of cake, NEVER! having a sexist or discriminatory comment against me or any woman, Of course he doesn't raise his voice, in short, A GENTLEMAN of the 21st century ON A MOTORCYCLE ππ.
β€οΈDetallista: Women complain that they don't listen to them, how sad since JJ listens to me for two hours straight without getting bored and look I talk, send notes and all thatπ€£. When I need something like for example, a spoon to make my meals like the ones in Hive, a few days go by and there is the spoon with other implements He is a marvel of detail, always aware of my needs, health, emotions, that is, very, very detailed.
β€οΈJovialidad: many people around us think that because she is older than me, I am the inventor, that she dances reggaeton all the way down and likes social networks. Well no! IT'S THE OTHER WAY AROUND π€£ I'm the relationship lady while for him it's very easy to say, "look get ready we're going on a trip tomorrow" or he knows all the Bad Bunny's and I'm still singing gasoline. Yes, I love his witticisms and current events, because at least thanks to him I already know about showbiz people π.
Mi JJ se describe en mΓ‘s de tres palabras π, pero ni modo, son tres asΓ que me tocarΓ‘ resumir:
β€οΈCaballero: Toda princesa es tratada como ella lo permite; en este caso, me encanta ser tratada por un caballero como Γ©l. Un tono de voz calmado, amable, siempre preguntando o abriendo la puerta, dandome el ΓΊltimo pedazo de la torta, Β‘JAMΓS! teniendo un comentario machista o discriminatorio contra mΓ o alguna mujer, Por supuesto no levanta la voz, en fin, UN CABALLERO del siglo XXI EN MOTO ππ.
β€οΈDetallista: Las mujeres se quejan de que no las escuchan, que triste ya que JJ me escucha por dos horas seguidas sin aburrirse y miren que yo hablo, mando notas y todo esoπ€£. Cuando necesito algo como por ejemplo, una cuchara para hacer mis comidas como las que salen en Hive, pasan unos dΓas y allΓ estΓ‘ la cuchara con otros implementos Es una maravilla de detallista, siempre pendiente de mis necesidades, salud, emociones, es decir, muy pero muy detallista.
β€οΈJovialidad: muchos que nos rodean piensa que por ser mayor que yo, soy la inventora, que baila reggaetΓ³n hasta abajo y le gustan las redes sociales Β‘Pues no! ES AL REVΓS π€£ yo soy la doΓ±a de la relaciΓ³n mientras para Γ©l es muy fΓ‘cil decir, "mira prepΓ‘rate que maΓ±ana vamos de viaje" o se sabe todas las de Bad Bunny y yo aΓΊn cantando la gasolina. Si, sus ocurrencias y actualidad me encantan, porque al menos gracias a Γ©l ya sΓ© de la gente de la farΓ‘ndula π.
How did you meet?
It was in the summer of '67 π€£. Actually it was in September a few years ago. The exact day (or night) is not clear to us, although it's just a matter of looking it up, but for now we'll leave it at that. My dad is a biker and on Margarita Island there was a motorbike event. That was the perfect scenario for us to get to know each other and to meet! He saw me first and "marked" me, I didn't oppose his courtship and that's how we started π.
Does love at first sight exist? OF COURSE IT DOES AND WE ARE PROOF OF THAT. We just saw each other, smiled at each other, and the next day we went out, just like that (of course, as friends), since his brothers were the bikers and he only went because he bought a bike, without knowing anything about them π€£, but we were sharing and that counts as a date.
As we shared the last day of the event, the next day he left; we had contact for a few months, until in January he invited me to a trip and I ACCEPTED! I always acknowledged what I wanted with him and JJ was very frank about his feelings for me, so there was no problem of understanding, communication or anything negative.
Fue en el verano del 67 π€£. En realidad fue en septiembre de hace unos aΓ±os. El dΓa (o la noche) exacto no lo tenemos claro, aunque solo es cuestiΓ³n de buscarla y ya, pero por ahora la dejamos asΓ. Mi papΓ‘ es motero y en la isla de Margarita habΓa un evento de motos. Ese fue el escenario perfecto, para conocernos y Β‘Flecharnos! Γl me vio primero y me "marcΓ³", yo no me opuse a su cortejo y asΓ iniciamos π.
ΒΏQuΓ© el amor a primera vista existe? CLARO QUE SΓ Y SOMOS PRUEBA DE ESO. Solo nos vimos, nos sonreimos, y al otro dΓa salimos, asΓ de una vez (claro, en son de amigos), ya que sus hermanos eran los moteros y Γ©l solo fue porque se comprΓ³ una moto, sin saber nada de ellas π€£, pero estuvimos compartiendo y eso cuenta como cita.
Como compartimos el ΓΊltimo dΓa del evento, al otro dΓa Γ©l se marchΓ³; tuvimos contacto por unos meses, hasta que en enero me invitΓ³ a un viaje y Β‘YO ACEPTΓ! Siempre reconocΓ lo que querΓa con Γ©l y JJ era muy franco al decir sus sentimientos hacia mΓ, asΓ que por eso, no hubo problema de entendimiento, comunicaciΓ³n osea nada negativo.
What were your first impressions when you met this person for the first time?
I loved it π€£ and I danced and did the forbidden steps to please him π π. I loved that he was a man, I mean, none of the young men who go to these events looking for a girl to spend the night with. I loved how gentlemanly he was, chatty, thoughtful and natural in his treatment of me. So gentlemanly that he dropped me off at his brothers' house and paid for the dinner I ate, even though it wasn't his duty. Then he found out that my best conquest is through my belly π·.
That one falls in love with the first impression? OF COURSE YES. That's a scientific and proven fact, so let's stop romanticizing that the first question we ask or imagine is "what's inside" Does he have a good liver? Are his lungs clean? None of that, we see colour, height, face, body, smell, voice perception, contact with that squeezing hand, seductive gaze. Let's be clear about that, and that did make me fall in love at first sight and still captivates me π.
A mi me encantΓ³ π€£ y yo bailaba y sacaba los pasos prohibidos para agradarle π π. Me encantΓ³ que era un hombre, es decir, nada de los jΓ³venes que van a esos eventos buscando una chica con la que pasar la noche. Me encantΓ³ lo caballero que fue, conversador, detallista y natural al tratarme. Tan caballero asΓ, que me dejΓ³ en casa de sus hermanos y pagΓ³ la cena que me comΓ, aΓΊn cuando no era su deber. DespuΓ©s descubriΓ³ que mi mejor conquista es por la panza π·.
ΒΏQue uno se enamora de la primera impresiΓ³n? CLARO QUE SΓ. Eso es un hecho cientΓfico y comprobado, asΓ que dejemos de romantizar que la primera pregunta que hacemos o nos imaginamos es "lo de adentro" ΒΏTendrΓ‘ un buen higado? ΒΏSus pulmones estan limpios? Nada de eso, nosotros vemos color, altura, cara, cuerpo, olor, percepciΓ³n de la voz, contacto con esa mano que aprieta, mirada seductora. Seamos claro con eso, y eso si me enamorΓ³ a primera vista y aΓΊn me sigue cautivando π.
An anecdote that you remember between the two of you?
It will sound repetitive but there are many memories that we have together since our relationship has been a bit original, however, an anecdote would be the night we met; that night full of drinks, dances, music, women, men, holidays, and more drinks during the whole weekend, who was looking for something serious? well it seems that we were π π€£.
It turns out that since he took it upon himself to say that "among all the girls, the one he liked was me", then everyone knew that I was the target except me (obviously), so that night we were introduced by a friend; it was something like - This is my brother-in-law - I extended my hand and that was it. Then it was brothers and sisters and even friends who were passing by, introducing us. At about the fourth introduction I said 'something's up' but I pretended not to notice heh heh heh heh.
As I said, that same night we went out and it was a wild night; we drank too much, we went dancing, we rode motorbikes, we slept together (just sleep he, he), π»πΆππ the hangover was not normal, there are many things that we still don't remember and we only managed to say: I don't know what happened to me, I'm not like that.
Fortunately, today we know each other in many ways and we are sure that we are not like that, and if we do, it's together π.
SonarΓ‘ repetitivo pero son muchos recuerdos los que tenemos juntos ya que nuestra relaciΓ³n ha sido un poco original, sin embargo, una anΓ©cdota serΓa la noche que nos conocimos; esa noche llena de bebidas, bailes, mΓΊsica, mujeres, hombres, vacaciones, y mas bebidas esperituosas durante TODO EL FIN DE SEMANA ΒΏquiΓ©n iba buscando algo serio? pues parece que nosotros π π€£.
Resulta que como Γ©l se encargo de decir que "entre todas las chicas, la que le gustΓ³ fui yo", entonces todos sabΓan que yo era el objetivo menos yo (obvio), asΓ que esa noche nos presentΓ³ una amiga; fue algo como - Te presento a mi cuΓ±ado- Le extendΓ mi mano y ya. Luego, fueron los hermanos y hasta los amigos que venΓan pasando, nos presentaban. Como a la cuarta presentaciΓ³n dije algo pasa pero me hice la desentendida je,je,je.
Como dije, esa misma noche salimos y fue una noche desenfrenada; bebimos demΓ‘s, fuimos a bailar, anduvimos en moto, dormimos juntos (solo dormir je,je), π»πΆππ la resaca no era normal, hay muchas cosas que aΓΊn no recordamos y solo alcanzamos a decir: no sΓ© quΓ© me paso, yo no soy asΓ. ππ.
Afortunadamente, hoy nos conocemos de muchas formas y estamos segurΓsimos que no somos asΓ como nos portamos esa noche, y si lo hacemos, es juntos π.
What gifts does the person like to receive and what gifts would you like to receive?
Obviously we all like gifts, but more than that we give each other moments. He has a lot of things to buy and he is in a place where he can access them; on the contrary, I am very content with what I have and when we want something, we don't need a date to get it; yes, every time we meet, we always bring a gift bag and a card, I must say that I had never given cards (to get them is difficult because everything is digital) so I think they are perfect gifts.
Continuing with the moments, we give each other an outing to a place we like, a trip, an activity together, and if we go to events, we give each other a shirt or something from there. I like flowers and he gives me bouquets, so we're doing well π.
The gift we're planning for both of us is ambitious but we're working on it #goals2023.
Obvio que a todos nos gustan los regalos, pero mΓ‘s que eso nos regalamos momentos. Γl tiene para comprar muchas cosas y estΓ‘ en un sitio donde puede acceder a ello; Por el contrario, yo soy bien conforme con lo que tengo y cuando queremos algo, no necesitamos alguna fecha para obtenerlo; eso sΓ, cada vez que nos encontramos, siempre llevamos una bolsa de regalo y una tarjeta, debo decir que jamΓ‘s habΓa regalados tarjetas (para conseguirlas son difΓciles porque todo es digital) asΓ que me parecen unos regalos perfectos.
Siguiendo con los momentos, nos regalamos una salida a un sitio que nos guste, un viaje, una actividad junta, y si vamos a eventos, nos regalamos una camisa o algo de allΓ. A mΓ me gustan las flores y Γ©l me regala ramos, asΓ que por allΓ vamos bien π.
El regalo que estamos programando para ambos es ambicioso pero trabajamos en ello #goals2023
How important is it to you to have met this person?
Look, we met at a perfect moment. Looking for peace, without rushing and without tiredness, without the doubt or mistrust of youth, but feeling the encouragement of those first times. For me it is important because I find balance, complement and acceptance of how I am and how I function. I am happy and my happiness is complemented by every gesture of admiration and affection towards me.
Miren, nos conocimos en un momento perfecto. Buscando la paz, sin apuro y sin cansancio, sin andar con la duda o desconfianza de la juventud, pero sintiendo el Γ‘nimo de esas primeras veces. Para mΓ es importante porque encuentro equilibrio, complemento y aceptaciΓ³n de como soy y como me desenvuelvo. Soy feliz y mi felicidad la complementa con cada gesto de admiraciΓ³n y cariΓ±o hacia mΓ.
What do you admire about that person?
The most important thing is their love for their family. I see many people complain because a person misses a weekend, many times they don't bring food to the house and the blessed infidelities because "things are not going well" at home. In this case, JJ prefers to spend time with the family, a barbecue or breakfast with the family and if he wants to do some activity, I'm always included as "the first chicharrona", so for me that is nice and meaningful, because I also look for calm and sharing, family atmosphere and tranquility of not going around suffering because "I lost my man" π€£.
Lo primordial es su amor por la familia. Yo veo muchas personas quejarse porque una persona se pierde un fin de semana, en muchas oportunidades no llevan comida a la casa y las benditas infidelidades porque en casa "las cosas no van bien". En este caso, JJ prefiere pasar tiempo en familia, una parrila o desayuno en familia y si quiere hacer alguna actividad, siempre voy incluida como "la primera chicharrona", entonces eso para mi es bonito y significativo, porque yo tambiΓ©n busco calma y compartir, ambiente familiar y tranquilidad de no andar sufriendo porque " se me perdiΓ³ el hombre" π€£.
Finally
No me puedo despedir sin desearles a todos ustedes que disfruten su dΓa de amor, rodeados de mucha armonΓa porque eso es lo ΓΊnico que necesita el mundo:
A M O R
Si quieres saber de esta inciativa, estarΓ‘ activa por todo el mes de febrero y pueden encontrar los detalles pulsando aquΓ
Y estamos claros que mis separadores me quedaron Β‘Divinos!, son realizados en Canvas.
Las fotografΓas forman parte de mi albΓΊm digital.
I cannot say goodbye without wishing you all to enjoy your day of love, surrounded by a lot of harmony because that is all the world needs:
L O V E
If you want to know about this initiative, it will be active for the whole month of February and you can find the details by clicking here.
And we're sure that my dividers were divine, they are made in Canvas.
The photographs are part of my digital album.