I do not want my friend to act in a way l will not understand him/her or feels like they are lying to me, I want to hear the truth than experiencing lies, because if that should happen, lt's going to show that he/she isn't loyal and on the other hand, the person doesn't feels something reasonable for me.
saying the truth is responsible because it will make people we are dealing with to understand us. ln life, there are a lot of benefits when the people we get in touch with can speak of the way we do things.
l was ln the house one day and l got a call from my friend who told me he was coming to my place so that l fixed somethings for him concerning his online courses.
To be frank, I was about stepping out to somewhere nice and have great moment, but because he informed me about his coming, l stopped the movement, and I was waiting for him to come before I choose the next thing I will do.
Therefore, I waited for him and he did not come as he said, the deal was, l as well needed someone to talk to, because lt seems the day was somehow lonely at my end too.
l didn't know when I fall asleep that afternoon, and I guessed that may be because I am too emotional and l felt somehow bad that he lied to me.
when I woke up, l realized lt was getting to evening, then what I did immediately l wake up was to looked at my phone and checked lf he has called me or not, but he didn't, after sometimes, I decided to let go of it, and trust that it was for the best, because that fund l would have spent ln where i was about going to would saved the next day as I will used it for something else.
As he did not called, and lt was getting to three days, l decided to note that something wasn't right.
Yesterday I went to his place, and l realized he had a lot going on there, because he needed to stay back and take care of his chicks.
He told me as he was about coming and he check on his chick's, which is what he usually do before going out, then he realized that he needed to stay back and give some vaccine's to the chicks for recovery since he find out that some were somehow affected and could not moved around the pens house.
My concern was that he should have called so that I know about his change of plans and didn't have to wait that he was coming that day, but he told me his phone fell from the top of the chicks feeds and had a crack as he was rushing to give them the vaccine ln their feeds and water.
l felt guilty because I was so quick to judge him for not turning up.
lmages are mine.
Wes & Grindan