The deal is, if I am not good to myself i will hardly do it to others, because they said, learning start at home.
l am saying this because, some times I used to have that feelings that will make me feels like i am not at where l should be, and in those moment's, the thought used to distract my attention, worst more lf l was with either a friend or a relative and we were having a conversation.
The deal is, he/she won't feels my presence anymore, as l will be silent, like i wasn't with anybody, and this used to take place when l allowed myself to be having those unhelpful thoughts, it will makes me change to a different person entirely, and I just don't like it, because at the end, l will feel like I am not giving the people l love and care about my time.
Although the things I want are still important, yet I do not feel like I am doing any better when I am bringing in those unhelpful thoughts lnto my mind. But for quite a while l have learnt something and that is, "anything l can't control, i should let it not to bother me, and since then, l am living in that path.
Life does not make sense when we are far from our love ones through our attitudes, so I want to continue ln the best attitudes now and even next year, l know it's not easy to relax ourself ln a thing we want, but we see that we are not getting it. Yet, l want to lived with happiness all the times and not for any reason feel sad, or do something unbearable to my love ones, just because of keeping a sad mindset.
Even the way we talk can hurt another person, so, as long as l want to behave in a good way to myself and to my people, l still want to speak in a good way and tune to those around me.
One of my friend is staying with his brother, but each time he came back from work he will be using harsh voice on the brother, and each time I pay them a visit, and I saw how he talks, l used to tell him, he should be minding his tune because he sound so harsh and that might make his brother not to feel happy at his side.
He listened to me and he never do like that anymore, this is the way I want me and people to lived, in a way of understanding of another and not being a person that cause bad moment to another.
Because lf we make people feel bad, they might do something we did not see could happen. ln this world, there is nothing that cause beautification like love, the way I see is that, love and understanding is where all the solutions to challenges we are facing are in this world.
Wes & Grindan