For many times now, i have been asking myself question's, trying to find out what's my purpose in life.
There are times I think it's this, and there are also moments, I will see that it's another thing, but what safe me right now, to truly figure out myself was when I understand that our purpose in life must align with what we like to do, and by that, I mean those things we can do without feeling tired.
Depending on the individual, he/she may have many of these things which are his/her life purpose, just like me, I think mine as well is not one.
Mostly, I do get pissed off, when I see a friend not in his/her happy mood, and at moments like this, I always tries to help, see to what I can do to give them the happy mindset, and so, tried to talked to them that being angry isn't a way forward, but they should cheer up and hope for the best.
The deal is, when the things we feels inside are made with easiness and love, so will our life be colourful and surround with beautiful things.
I am someone who tried to understands another person, because i realized how important that is in life.
It happens so because, there was a time, i needed someone who can give me a listening ear for me to tells him the challenges I was going through, and so I had someone, then I recalled how that help me to loose it off, not because the challenges was solve as at moment, but it makes me to realize that I was not alone.
Many days, we came across people who feels lost, because the things they do are not going inline the way they expect, so for us to make them understand that it is not the end of their life's, we have to start by letting them know they are going to be prosperous as far as they do not stop believing in their ability's.
Lastly, is love, and before it, i have to be able to let the love for myself be there in me. Therefore, speaking deep into the concept of love, the world itself needs it, having a loving life is a purpose I believe that so many of us should take it as a purpose.
I have come across a greater number of people both in the online and where I lived also, who loves theirself, friends, family's and their neighbors, and in most of these events, i do watch how they do it and learned from them, because we learn everyday and there are so many way's a person can love another.
In the neighborhood i stay, I have seen a woman who harbor her friend in her apartment, because she was sent out of where she was staying, due to inability of paying her rent, so she was stranded and had nowhere to go, she calls her friend, and the woman brought her into compound and told her to stay in the visitors room till the time she can get herself a new place.
Generosity can not be underrated no matter what, and as long as i know, those people who were in dying needs, and got it, won't forget about the kindness, sometimes, we find the good things people do to them, making them to help other people they know deserve it.
Speaking of myself, am i generous? I bought this insects killer few days ago, it was for my personal used, but as my friend told me, how mosquitoes bite him in his room, i had to let him have it.
I know the area we stay is full of mosquitoes, so I did not want him to return it after that day, but he should keep it, so that in case of next time, if they grow many in numbers, he can used it to prevent himself from their bite.
Later on that day, i got another of that same brand of insects killer for myself, because that is the brand that works for me, and since then, my friend do not talk about mosquitoes bite, we are free from it.
Image's are mine.
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