Giving chances to yourself and to others.

in #hive-1092882 years ago

“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”
― Maya Angelou

Hi Beautiful people. I hope you all are doing great in your lives. I am here to share something very close to my heart. I am not sure if I will be able to share it the way I feel it. I am a bit emotional today. I am not sure about the reason. It seems perfectly normal and natural to me to feel this way, but I have not felt this way in a very long time.

A few things happened today. I got into an argument which seemed rather peaceful and conclusive to me, but the other person was not in the mood to absorb something out of that argument and it gave us both the negative vibes. I am still very much ready to give that person a chance to make this relationship healthier for both of us. Not to mention that this chance is for me as well so that I become more careful and cautious in handling my relationships.

This should sum up the kind of person I am. I am a person who feels bound to give chances. I am not sure if I am forgiving or not but I cannot hold grudges in my heart even if the actions of others make me feel really bad.

You guys tell me now. Are you willing to give chances to a person who is not contributing to the relationship in a healthier manner? Share your thoughts in the comments section.-I believe that people do deserve chances and opportunities most of the times. We cannot deny that people are constantly going through miseries and problems at one point or the other. Their harsh actions are mere responses to these miseries. This is why I profess being kind to others.

Thank you for your time and support. Do share your thoughts, these help me a lot in improving my thoughts.

Ps: the pictures are my work..

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Are you willing to give chances to a person who is not contributing to the relationship in a healthier manner?

If it is not healthy, then it's it not good for you. We can always give them a chance but one chance is enough. People will never change if they are not willing. It would be hard if you are alone working on that relationship.

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