"No dejes que el comportamiento de otros destruya tu paz interior" Dalai Lama
At some point in our lives we can find toxic people, who are capable of disturbing our peace and even neutralizing our good vibes, if we allow it.
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace" Dalai Lama.
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Este año 2022, tengo entre mis objetivos no permitirle a este tipo de personas acercarce a mi vida y mucho menos afectarla.
En el pasado tuve una experiencia con una persona toxica cercana a mi, quien con su falsa careta que tenía puesta logró engañarme y que debido al amor que sentía por ella no me dí cuenta a tiempo de toxica que era.
Sín embargo, luego de un tiempo me me di cuenta de ello, pero ya estaba demasiado involucrada con esa persona y se habia metido en mi vida afectando mi vida personal y familiar.
La experiencia fue realmente dura y amarga pero el aprendizaje quedó fijado en mi mente.
Toxic people are those who far from contributing something positive to their environment, what they transmit are negative energies, through constant complaints and criticism to all the other people around them.
This year 2022, I have among my goals not to allow these types of people to come close to my life and much less affect it.
In the past I had an experience with a toxic person close to me, who managed to deceive me with the false mask that she had on her and because of the love I felt for her I did not realize in time how toxic she was.
However, after a while I realized it, but I was already too involved with that person and he had gotten into my life affecting my personal and family life.
The experience was really hard and bitter but the learning was fixed in my mind.
¿ Por qué debo permitirle a una persona que me robe mi paz, mi autoestima e inclusive el equilibrio familiar?
Muchas personas caen el error de aceptar o permitirle a este tipo de personas atribuciones que nadie debe tener sobre nosotros, quizás por amor o inclusive por baja autoestima, pero lo cierto es que no debe ser asi y solo nosotros mismo podemos evitarlo.
Particularmente, califico a las personas toxica como una categoria de parasito que vive de las energias postivas de las demás personas, son ladrones de la felicidad y de la paz de los demás.
Mayormente se satisfacen desmoralizando a las demás personas a tal punto que pueden llegar a tener problemas de baja autoestima entre otros trastornos conductales asociados.
Why should I allow a person to steal my peace, my self-esteem and even family balance?
Many people make the mistake of accepting or allowing this type of person attributions that no one should have over us, perhaps out of love or even low self-esteem, but the truth is that it should not be like that and only we ourselves can avoid it.
In particular, I qualify toxic people as a category of parasite that lives off the positive energies of other people, they are thieves of happiness and peace of others.
They are mostly satisfied by demoralizing other people to the point that they may have low self-esteem problems among other associated behavioral disorders.
Aprendamos a identificar a tiempo esta clase de personas cuyas caracteristicas comunes son: pesimistas, egoistas, egocentricos, envidiosos, dominantes, manipuladores y amargados.
Evitar a tiempo que se involucren en nuestras vidas es la mejor decisión que puedes tomar.
Les dejo con esta afirmación de Dalai Lama a manera de reflexión y cierre:
"Deja ir a personas que sólo llegan para compartir quejas, problemas, historias desastrosas, miedos y juicios de los demás. Si alguien busca un cubo para echar su basura, procura que no sea en tu mente". Dalai Lama.
Avoid time to get involved in our lives is the best decision you can take.
I leave you with this affirmation of Dalai Lama in the manner of reflection and closing:
"Let go of people who only arrive to share complaints, problems, disastrous stories, fear and judgment of others. If someone looks for a bucket to throw their garbage, try not to be in your mind." Dalai Lama.
