A failure changed the concept of life

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Success and failure are part of life, and both come to life in different phases. Everyone wants to achieve success in every case, but failure comes in the way of success, and many of us think of it as an obstacle to success, but it's part of success. I haven't heard of any success stories where someone achieved success without any failure, and I doubt that kind of story exists.

Failure always comes with important lessons that can make us better and more capable than the previous time, and that's why it's called that success is a journey and failure comes in the journey to strengthen us. In life, we encountered many failures, but all of them were not significant. Some failures were very powerful, giving us very important lessons, and sometimes they were powerful enough to change our perspective on life.

The HSC exam in my country is one of the most important exams for my career, and I was the one who was serious about my studies. I was kind of a robot at that time. It was a good thing for my studies and helped me to do better in the case of study, but I was so serious that I thought, except for studying, there is nothing in this world. It's the only thing that can give me an identity, and I was making continuous efforts to get the best result in the exam. I can clearly remember that for my studies, I missed all my family functions (except some), and the situation was like that: I was living in a cave and only came out when it was necessary. In fact, I used to meet rarely with my friends, and I used to think that all of those were a waste of time, and I didn't want to waste my precious time. I was leading the life of a robot.

I thought I was doing the best thing, and with that hope, I finished my exam. When I received the result, I was disappointed because I didn't get the best result I wanted, although many consoled me by saying that I had done a good result. I also knew that I made a good result, but compared to my effort, I felt it wasn't worthy one, and the good result was meaningless to me. I didn't cry about it, but I was heartbroken, and I started to think about what I had lost for the exams. I realized that I missed many precious moments in my life, and I became disconnected from others. I regret it because I knew that I would not get those moments again in my life, and I didn't get the desired result which I wanted. It was a loss for me from both sides.

I think the Almighty punished me for my actions. I also realized that I could balance everything with my studies, and if I had done it, I might not have regretted it. If I got the expected result, then I might be very proud and do a similar thing after that time as well. So this failure made me realize the importance of other things besides studying, and studying is not the only important thing for me. I have many things to do in this life, and I have many other responsibilities to carry out instead of doing my studies. I would not have realized the most important lesson of life if I hadn't failed to achieve my desired result. The shock changed many things in my life, and I am thankful for the shock because I think it made me a better version of myself. At the same time, I also got the fruits of my hard work because, in the admission exam, I got the chance to be admitted to several top universities in my country, and I am still a student of a top university. So it was a life-changing failure for me.


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Wow! That is definitely a life changing failure and it changed you for the better. As sad as it is that you lost precious things, you have gained precious insights that will help in you in your growth.

Sometimes we get so focused on the things we want to achieve we miss what's really important. Your experience is an eye opener for sure.

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