My 3 neighbors

in #hive-110602 months ago

We are human beings, and naturally many times we need the help of others. Our relatives try to help us in various ways, and it's needed, but during the time of emergency, our relatives do not stay with us. During this time, our neighbors play the most important role, as they acknowledge our danger first as they stay nearby us and can help instantly.

Currently, I am living in the city, and there is a huge difference between city life and village life. Village life is very lively, and almost all of us are well-connected with neighbors. But in the city, everyone is like a human robot, and in rare cases, we interact with neighbors. In my case, I only go outside of the house whenever I have some task to do. I was supposed to interact with a few people only, but whenever I go outside, I try to interact with each person I know here, and I am very friendly with them, and I ask about their updates. So naturally I made good connections with the neighbors; unfortunately, all the neighbors sifted in different locations, and I wasn't able to communicate well with neighbors.

My father is an extrovert, and he grew up all the time in a village, and naturally, it's impossible for him to stay inside of a four-wall, so he goes outside most of the time whenever he is free. I think it's not a bad habit either. Moreover, I think it's impossible for him to stay inside the house all day because he's grown up like that. Naturally, within a very short time, he can be friendly with anyone. I think he knows every person who lives in the residential area. He knows almost every family situation and condition of everyone. So, I know a little bit of my neighbors from my father.

Currently, there are 3 neighboring families besides my flat. One of the families is totally new, and I don't know too much about them because they arrived here a few months ago.

In the case of second neighbors, I know about a little bit as I encountered them several times. There was a female person who was a police officer, and she used to behave well when I met her. She was quite friendly to my mother also. Several times she asked for my help for some purposes, but I denied her all the time, saying I didn't know about the topics. It's because I never wanted to waste my time on someone who is not important to me. Although once my father said to help her in a case, I refused politely. I can refuse anyone. She asked my sister to teach her child as a private tutor, and she promised to give her $300 per month. After one month later, she gave my sister only $50 for it. I think it was totally ridiculous to me, and I immediately told my sister to stop doing the tuition, as 50 dollars was nothing compared to her effort. After that, interaction reduced with those neighbors.

The remaining neighbors are pretty good. There is a person who is my junior, and his behavior is very polite. I love to talk with him when I meet with him. His mother was also friendly, and several times she discussed many things about studying. That junior is right now in Japan, and still I am connected with him. His mother still discusses many things, and I always try to help her whenever she needs my help. In my opinion, this neighborhood is very good, and I think I am lucky to have such kind of neighbors.


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I can see that you live all your neighbors in your neighborhood. The one who gave 50 out of 300 is greedy. Anyway, I do much love the fact that you are in good terms with them all

I see you know your boundaries and you like fairness, that neighbor didn't do well to pay $50 out of $300, what could have been her reason?

But I'm glad you still enjoy living in your neighborhood, it isn't bad there.

She gave a lame reason. Se said she promised to give 50$ for each month. It's a lame excuse and narrow minded people do it and I think a police officer used to do such kind of think in a regular basis with many people. If I were in my sisters place I would return the 50$ to her immediately with a advice. it's was first tuition of my sister and she didn't know how to handle the situation. I just said her to leave the tuition.
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That's not nice of her at all.

Leave it to neighbours to take advantage of your kindness. The moment you make yourself available, they take it a mile and back. Always great to make boundaries like you did

Hmm. That's why I am not free to anyone to help unless I know the person's nature otherwise, it's an emergency. It's better to use my time for a different purpose which is good for me.
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