HORRORS OF THE TONGUES

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If she won die make she die nah which kind problem be this

In some situations it hard to control or filter ur words and a lot of time it could be the group u find yourself or maybe the circumstances of the moment, it your girl @onize27.

The tongue is one of the most fragile part of the human body but it spits fire.

Sometimes last year into the middle of the year I go a call from a close friend of mine who was a single mother she was in tears on the other side of the phone I was really afraid I tried to clam her down from my end so I could hear what she was saying, it was had to put all she was saying together over her cry, I finally succeeded in doing so and got get words from her, her mom was just rushed to the hospital for the fourth time that year.

I put myself together and want over to the hospital she was a complete mess, her daughter just left the hospital he had school fees to pay as well as rent, she was laminating so badly, I tried as much as I could to help her put herself together.

The test results where out after all the pay for this pay for that,

your mother heart has a weak Kidney

Those where the words of the doctor, I could see the pain in my friends eye, not too long ago the family left same hospital with big smells on there faces there mother was leaving the hospital of months of being there there mother had fought Diabetes and won.

And now this she was yet to recover from the lost money due to all the Surgeries the skin Grafton Grafton. Grafting surgery to repair her legs that Diabetes had eaten into, than the eye surgery to correct her sight, her business is suffering because it been a while she had open for a straight two weeks now from no where she had to deal with this as will.

She has siblings but as the first girl all others where looking up to her to make payment for treatment.

We had run around to source for money to Begin treatment, treatment had started first drip down second as well she was on her third one and it was half way gone thing where going on like all was well, two weeks into treatment, things where going on like nothing could happen or go wrong again, than mama could not breath again on her she needed oxygen to enable her breath and that was a lot a money on it own, ended to the already exciting bills.

She had called again to inform me of the latest development, I rushed to her so I can be there for my friend, as soon as I got there and our eye met the first thing she told me was

baby i’m tried

Than i said the most insensitive, inhuman and heartless thing someone can ever think of or say to someone in times like this.

haba if she want to die let her die nah which kind unnecessary stress and spending is this one

My friends face want totally cold than than I realized how insensitive I had been with my wording.

I apologize immediately and all, of cause she was mad but not for long we walked things out grandma is fine and my friend understand that I didn’t mean the words I said, but believe it or not it still Haunt me till data those words.

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I understand you totally, you were just worried and concerned about your friend. And those words came out at the wrong time

You really understand,thank you

Welcome 🤗

I get your anger. Your friend was in pain and you’re just expected to watch? It can be really painful yet, we should learn to hold our words back

True, thank u

Wow, I guess you didn't mean that you said it because of the pain your friend was going through at the moment. Glad you apologized immediately after saying it.

Thank u

You are welcome

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