Today I will discuss an important topic, the topic suddenly arose in my mind. We plan the separation from nothing to nothing. I think that if the relationship is broken, all the problems will be solved. In some cases the problem is solved but in most cases the problem is much worse. Suppose when a boy and a girl are in a relationship it can be even before marriage. And most of the relationships before marriage do not last, they break up. Because the emotions are high at this time, there is no time to think about everything. At this point, the breakup is mostly for the better, and in some cases, for the worse. Some go crazy again, those who are more emotional have more problems. And when the marriage is done, everything has to be thought about a lot. If there is a breakup after a few days of love, it does not have such an effect. But if the separation is after marriage and after having children, if a family is separated. If not their problem then, the children have a much bigger problem. They will not get proper mother's love. And if the child is with the mother, then there is a lot of trouble for her. He will not have his father's love, his father's discipline and love will have nothing. And whoever does not have a father in this society realizes how neglected he is because a father is like a banyan tree. Without a father there is not a shadow over him. And the people of the society always see his neglected eyes.
Even close relatives in particular then look at him with annoyance rather than affection as he loses much of his power without a father. He can't do much in the society even if he wants to because his mother is there but separated it's very difficult. It is normal that there will be small troubles in the world. But if it is a rash decision to divorce, I think it is the biggest mistake. Because at that moment, because of hot-headedness, it may be separated, but if you think about the next time, then you will see that it was a very bad decision in his life. Because she too will not be worth much to the society because she is divorced. A disgrace to the divorced women's society, everyone looks down on her. Everyone thinks that maybe she was so bad that she got divorced. If he solves the problems in the world with a cool head, then this next situation does not come before him. Therefore, it is not right to take any decision in the head of anger, especially if there are children, after separation, the children are neglected a lot. So I think it is right not to go towards a bad act like separation because of small problems in the world or for a little big problem. So we should refrain from taking any decision out of anger. Then we can reach the right decision in our life. If there is no big decision suddenly in the head of anger, then we will have to regret a lot later. We will always try to make a decision with a cool head, inshallah. Until today see you in the next post with another story. Thank you all.
