One thing I love about myself is that I actually do take my comfort as a part and parcel of me, anything that comes in the way of my comfort is gonna get it from me.lolz, depends on what it is though but seriously i cant deal wen it comes to things that takr my comfort away.
Comfort is one thing that makes a human life more bearable, Currently in Nigeria we can say that we aren't living that life of comfort that we might want , but she look for the little things to make that comfort possible, after all this life is just one ,so why live in discomfort when you can actually get that comfort.
One time I felt completely out of my comfort zone was a time I decided to make my hair from a friend / neighbor ,that morning I had gone to a salon to make my hair and on getting there ,I didn't meet the hair stylist , and because i don't actually like coming out of my house so often , i didn't like the idea of going back home and coming out back again. So I started my hunt for the hair stylist mobile number which I later got from one of her neighbour, she told me she was in Church and that she was going to be around in the next 3hours and I was so sad because I had other school work I needed to do and if I had to wait three hours for this woman , that would mean , my dsy would be unproductive , i actually told her i was going to wait.
I decided to walk to my parents house since it was going to be a long three hours wait, on getting there I met my friend ene outside her house and she was like what was I doing here so early , I told her I came to make my hair but the stylist wasn't around and I decided to come wait at my parents parents place since it was closer to the salon. She said okay, and was like , I like stressing myself that I know she makes her and that I should go get the things I need to make the hair so she makes it for me. At first I was reluctant because it would mean I would have to be removing the attachment and be giving to her and this was something I didn't like doing, whenever I make my hair I just like sitting and pressing my phone till the hair is done , but this make me have no choice than to sit and have her make my hair.
My friend and i
Aside from removing the hair attachments , I had to sit on a wooden bench without any backrest. This was another uncomfortable thing for me , and the worst was I had to sit for more than three hours. I was so stressed that I knew there was nothing I could do for that day anymore.
Though I liked the hair after she was done but I wasn't happy because it was something I did out of my comfort zone, and one thing was it did save me extra cost because she made it for free for me , that was the advantage but the disadvantage was , I left there tired and with severe back pains.
What lessons did I learn from this
Well, the lesson I learnt from this experience is that I can't always have it all, I did have some advantage to her in making my hair , I spent less , but not time, and I didn't get the usual comfort I usually have when I do my hair.
Will I still let her make my hair?
As a matter of fact , this friend has made it her point of duty to always check on me if I was going to do my hair, but now I do pay her to do it , since she's rendering a service to me.
