The Evolution of My Dream Job

in #hive-110603 days ago

Just like every other kid, while growing up I had a handful of lists of my dream jobs that changed with time and life encounters with different people, although one thing stands out between my dream job right from a tender age and that of other children around me, because while most of their dream jobs revolved around pilots, doctors, engineers, politicians, and several others, mine, on the other hand, revolved around vocational skills acquisition and application, which was a big challenge as my parents didn't buy the idea of such.

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I remember the very first time I was asked a question about my dream job; it was during my primary school days, and before it got to me, my classmates had mentioned many notable jobs, from petroleum engineer to writer, politician, nurse, and the like, and on getting to my turn, I told the teacher I'd love to be a hairdresser. Immediately I said that, I noticed she paused, and I can bet she tried as much as possible not to laugh out loud because it was an unexpected response; in fact, my classmates laughed about it and used it to make fun of me after outside the classroom.

Well, she tried to convince me about it, like making me choose something within the notable jobs, but I'm just not fascinated by them, but despite my love for hairdressing back then and the passion I showed towards it by learning indirectly from a neighbor, my parents ended up being against it, and that's how the passion gradually faded away, as I didn't want to disobey my parents.

You would have taught me maybe, since that was out of the way, I would now see things in a new light and renew my interest in the jobs deemed reputable by my community, but no, instead the next job I had a passion for after that was fashion designer/tailoring; I was so engrossed in the dream to grow up in the fashion industry, making clothing designs that would make it to notable red carpets that I've seen on TV, to the point where I started learning without the knowledge of my parents, but one thing led to another, and I was found out once again, and I had to quit.

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After which I was enrolled in a computer school to learn how to operate the computer and the value of literacy skills in it, and trust me, I fell in love with this. Even though my love for fashion design was still strong, I enjoyed every bit of learning at this computer school, and it broadened my desire to want to become a computer professional when I grew up, as there are many professions in this field. I didn't really have one of mine, but I was hoping that when I got to the university, I'd know depending on which one I enjoyed the most.

Things went south during my admission to the university where, rather than the computer science course I applied for, I was given computer science in education, meaning I'll mostly be taught what's good enough to make me become a computer teacher, operator, or instructor. It wasn't a pleasant experience, but as I was tired of standing at home, I accepted the admission, and that's what I learned and graduated with, and to make matters worse, one of the jobs I much despised while growing up turned out to be my present job.

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Yeah, you read that correctly. Even though I'm a teacher presently and love my job, I can't forget in a hurry how I used to despise this profession because my dad used to be one himself, and during his days as a teacher, I couldn't help but notice how underpaid they were, not forgetting how the state sometimes owed them up to eight months salary, leading many of them to depend on loans to survive. As I don't want the same for myself, I used to despise teaching and every other job that revolved around depending on an employer to pay you.

But then, that's life for you; it works in mysterious ways, and I can't help but be grateful for where I am. Even though I didn't use to like the job, now I'm focused on improving myself as a teacher by getting valuable knowledge and skills that'll aid and improve my teaching and learning process, acquiring helpful gadgets and devices that'll stimulate learning and easy comprehension of students, such as projectors and the like; those are my goals for now in developing my present job since that's where I make ends meet.


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, I told the teacher I'd love to be a hairdresser.

😂😂 oh the mind of children

Those days people were ignorant of how vocational skills can become more lucrative than white-collar jobs, it's just recently because of the lack of employment did they realize what they didn't value, and I'm a testament to that.

If everyone ran away from teaching, intelligent minds like yours would be missed in our classrooms, teachers are awesome and deserve more.

I'm telling you dear, if most of our parents knew how valuable vocational skills is and would become, they won't restrict us from learning them.

Smile thanks so much for your kind words, I really appreciate and it made me blush.🥰

It's such a crime that teachers the world over are not paid well, when you literally have one of the most important jobs of teaching future generations. Society should support teachers, wanting the children to have the best education, but instead they are taken for granted!

I'm glad you enjoy your job now, but I wish you got the recognition you deserve too. <3

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It's quite dishearting that such treatment is melted on teachers, but there's nothing we can do in third world countries like mine, hopefully things change with time and teacher get valued and appreciated for what they do for the society and world at large.

In childhood time most of the child share their thoughts about their dream jobs. I can't remember if anyone has said something except doctors, engineers, or teachers which are not realistic for most of them. I have seen many students who said want to be a doctor but didn't study science. Isn't it ridiculous. I think there is no dream job for you when life demand something else from you.

Truely most of those dreams are unrealistic, especially if you reside in a third world countries like me, unlike first world nations where dreams are nultured from a tender age.

Becoming a hairdresser? That's really funny indeed and I bet the class laughed even though your teacher didn't.

There are successful male hairdressers out there really but the society has a standard for male and female occupation which makes zero sense to me. Everyone should be able to do whatever they want.

You ended up a teacher and I am glad you eventually loved it. I doubt if there are students today who would like to be a teacher because of how teachers are treated.

Yea the teacher held her laughter, but the students couldn't hide theirs, but had I learnt the skills, I'm sure it would have made me alot of money and gave me recognition because of how ladies use to love male stylist.

Thanks so much for your kind words boss, students today wants nothing to do with teaching

It's good to be one's self

Yes it's.