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Nobody is perfect yes we all know that right? If everyone in the world could have these traits I believe the world would be a better place, traits can be good or bad and they decide a person's actions, decisions in challenging times, and, overall lifestyle. Traits can be learned, growing up we've always believed that telling lies is bad but as adults, we kind of find it easy to lie just to escape certain situations.
Here are some traits I feel everyone should have
- Communication
As simple as it may sound communication is an essential trait I feel everyone should have, communication builds connection, builds trust, builds a true friendship, and maintains it. Communication helps us to understand each other's feelings cause if you don't communicate the next person won't know how you are feeling and we might feel something is up with you but how exactly do we know what you are feeling, when you don't speak up, we don't read minds besides we are not merlin.
The reason why most persons commit suicide is that they can't communicate their feelings they just assume the next person won't understand or can't provide a solution to their problems or even mock them. Believe me, communication does not solve your problems but it gives you this peace after sharing whatever is happening in your life, you'd feel a little weight had left you. People should learn to communicate more, share whatever they're going through lay that burden off a little, you can't carry it alone. Communication is not just about hearing what the next person is saying, is about hearing what they are not saying with the few words they've spoken.
- Honestly
Honesty builds trust and enhance growth in relationship with others, it builds loyalty, and honesty involves being transparent, and sincere, it also means authenticity, and being honest makes room for open communication. Honesty can be linked to communication in the sense that people speak to those they can trust.
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The world has gotten to the point where people fake friendship, they pretend to love while they don't, they despise you to the point of killing you but yet they fake smile with you, people get angry at your little achievements but yet come to congratulate you with a big smile on their faces.
When someone is honest you can depend on their words, intentions, and commitment, honesty requires vulnerability, when people are honest about their feelings, thoughts, and experiences they are revealing a part of themselves to others that might seem uncomfortable and scary, vulnerability builds a bond with those who matter most to us.
Being honest means being truthful even in the face of challenge and fear. People should learn to say what we mean and mean what we say so others can trust them and find comfort in them.
- Gratitude
They say gratitude makes room for more, but people aren't grateful for the little things they have, they always wish they had more. Mind you having more isn't bad either, but every journey starts with a step. Gratitude comes from the heart of contentment when people are contented they feel blessed and then gratitude comes in place.
Nobody gets to the top like that, every success story has a little beginning that they once appreciated, it is the lack of contentment that makes people engage in different activities they'll later regret in the future. People should develop a heart of contentment and be grateful for the small achievements and sorry for the wrong word, no achievement is small, and every achievement is great. Always be grateful.
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