Knowing When To Let Go

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Hey Everyone Glad to see a nice prompt on Inleo Day 20 I will be sharing some of my recent experiences and why I had to leave my partner although it was so painful cause I was ready to give it my all I found out our visions are not the same I just have to leave.

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Let's start with what a partner truly means it means someone you are ready to share it all with and you guys understood each other very well, trust each other and rely on each other no matter what challenges are going on please prove me wrong about these if it isn't what a partner truly means?

Ok, it all began when I noticed this damsel or beauty from my first year in school I must say she looks beautiful, she has all the edge and shape someone would seek in a woman and other things I notice in her are she is always alone and has one friend only she doesn't communicate with any classmate in class only if it required she does so that's where this guy step in ME I know how to make a friend and gather a crowd around me you could say am popular around school many people see me in different opinion but all know me.

Let's continue I approach her talk to her ask her name and all that it turns out well I wasn't satisfied I wanted to lift these negative vibes around her and get to know her more I just had to come up with something, I started a long conversation with her and take her to food vendor to get something to eat she ate yeah bills on me before you know it we got hooked up and was tuned in by my vibes we got to know each other more and get to familiarize with one another yeah mission accomplished.

As days went on we were I get to develop feelings I told her about my feelings and the funniest things was she never replied but instead smile and I felt like okay it a sign or something else sooner or later but bit by bit she gave me signal okay we are in fact she started arousing around making it obvious we are but I never got the vibe we into relationship, people use to see us as a couple thing but reality I never got her reply only a signal, things were going where from the start one certain day I started noticing some reaction whenever I told her I love you she never respond I was like is my love one sided love if you don't just tell me I will move on but on several occasions I tried to ask her to go out her respond was she values her business more than me I never complained, only time she reach me was if she needed something like assignment and all that and also we only see each other during school hours after that till next week but I wanted more than just acting as a spectator this continue for month, till it turned into a year I can't be on this one sided relationship anymore at the end I just had to tell her this what I feel and walk out of it her behavior I thought it was going to change but she just acted like I am not the right guy she looking for, I was a fool to belive I thought I have founded my miss right but no I haven't I endured for over a year hoping to see me as someone not a spectator but No it was getting toxic just had to leave that circle.

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I've really learnt a lot from this piece

Thanks am glad you able to learn one or two things and would you like to share what is that

Most of the times when we let go of someone in our life we really do love the person but it's just for the best

Yes thank you that true

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I've known guys who had fallen victims like you. Assumption can be dangerous. Thank you for sharing your sincere story.

Tha ms very much for listening I just had to let go at the right time