I went to Dhaka a few days ago for some personal needs, but I didn't say anything. Children's love is innocent, without any interests or demands. They know how to love selflessly. That's why maybe Allah has made their hearts like flowers. Every person dreams of doing many things in life, but that dream does not come true for everyone. Even if everyone wants it, they cannot arrange it the way they want. Even then, we have to continue our lives, accept it, adapt to it, otherwise, if you get neglected in this world, you will not be able to consider yourself a worthy person in this world for a while.
Our relationships have been rifts for a long time, no matter what kind of relationship it is, but when it comes to love, a person first of all endures thousands of attempts and thousands of neglects to maintain their relationship, but at the end of the day, it turns out that he cannot maintain the relationship even if he wants to. It seems to me that the one who gives you time will remember you even in the midst of thousands of busy lives, and the one who doesn't give you time may not even know when he has forgotten you.
The one who makes time for you in the midst of thousands of busy lives truly loves you. If you ever find such a person in the crowd of so many people, then definitely try to love him. At least you will be able to be good at every moment of your life. And anyway, if someone hurts you, you will not feel pain if you can control yourself. But when we get trapped in the bonds of human affection, it becomes very difficult for us to get out of there.
We always try to forget, no matter how difficult or sad it is, because this neglect cannot be tolerated for much longer. When a person's patience breaks, that person starts living alone. I also wanted to forget everything and eat for a while, maybe it would be good, but even if I wanted to, that is not possible. A family has to be with everyone, parents, siblings. Even after that, a desire to be alone arises in my mind. In fact, even if the family members do not say anything, some people have hurt me in such a way that it is really unbearable.
I almost forgot to mention that I went to Dhaka and they live in the house next door. We didn't really get to know each other that much on the first day, but the next morning I saw them bringing me flowers. They were made of paper. I was quite surprised to see them. I had never seen them before. Every time I went to Aunty's house, Aunty said, "Every time I go to Aunty's house, she follows me around." I found the matter very interesting. Then she handed me the flower and said, "I love you." It was a bit surprising, I don't know how surprising it was to you.
Both of them said the same thing. Then I said, "I haven't come here for a long time. I will only stay for two days and then I will leave." They say that you don't need time to express love. I learned this from a girl that there is no time limit for love. Love can be expressed whenever and wherever it is expressed. If the style of the person expressing it and the style of the person receiving it are the same, then love is truly beautiful because it knows so many things. I asked her how she knew so much.
Even then they asked me if I had ever loved anyone, I said no, even then they told me that if you love someone, you will see that life is beautiful. Then I asked them who do you love? They said, "We love our parents. Today, we have given you our share of love." I started thinking about the mistakes and how much love is in this little person. After a while, I saw that they both left. In the afternoon, they came again and spent some time with me. Then I said, "I will leave tomorrow." Both of them felt very bad.
Then he gave me his mother's number and said that he would contact us. Maybe this is real love, in which there was no interest, no attraction, only affection. Maybe it is because of this affection that I am now contacting them. I actually feel good when I talk to them. Even in small words, there is a different kind of love in the words. From here, I realized that if you love someone, you have to love them from your heart. If you can ever love someone from your heart, then maybe life is beautiful.
If you can't love, don't ruin your life by clinging to someone's illusion. Keep one thing in mind. Love is a very deep thing. Once you dive into the ocean, it will be very difficult for you to come out of that ocean. You will fall into a lot of neglect. Those who neglect you cannot live well in life and those who are arrogant are not happy at all. So don't neglect anyone. Try to love as much as you can. You will see that your life will also be beautiful. Their life will also be filled with flowers.