People are reluctant and partly petty to express their admiration towards someone or admit that they are grateful for something they have received from that person.
Most individuals nurutre this notion that acknowledging a colleague, a superior, or a junior (in workplace) is a depiction of self-inferiority. Which, lead them to hold high their petty ego and develop an arrogance to be in denial of the other persons' effort of whatever that is.
Initially though, they do feel mildly guilty deep down for their own biasness and become conflicted sometimes of whether "they should or should not" take a step to set thing right.
However, when those incidents occurs repeatedly as it should over time, that ideal to behold the denial, pushes them to become shamelessly arrogant, feigning ignorance of common sense about ethics and clouded their judgment.
And at one time, it prevails entirely a normal criteria of their characteristics.
There was an era when proberbs like fortune-favrous-the-hardwoker or honesty's-the-best-policy or money-cannot-buy-happiness used to have some truth about it.
But not anymore.
People has become more materialistic and mechanical.
People has stopped reading, appreciating art, artists.
People having it easy due to advanced technology and becoming sloth as a person.
People has stopped loving and respecting themselves, stopped spending time to nurture the wellness of their soul.
People detest to be alone, lonely, eventually a restless soul.
People are depending and burdening others for their own happiness and grivence.
And this is not the fault of neither technology nor advancement of era neither money.
Why?
Because amidst this bustling chaos of the high fluctuations of the graph, there exits people who have safely avoided the waves and is not amiss, has not lost themselves in the chaos.
However, as unfortunate the number of thoese people are decreasing everyday. They are being outnumbered and oppressed by those who lead the opposite of the graph.
Regardless their desire to live a harmless and chaos free life, they are being tattered, pushed over, cornered and often regret for doing good, or being kind.
While they try to do-no-harm, they are targeted of the harm.
While thriving in everyday life to do-good, they are facing constant unfairness.
While they make massive effort to be-honest, they are labelled as prudent or pretender.
While they desire to be-kind, they are taken advantage of for being a pushover.
I wonder where it went wrong for us to evovle into a such mankind.
Did we not make our lives easier to have a comfortable life?
Then why is it that we give them hard time that we would not want for us?
Why do we hurt people needlessly when we can easily choose the option to be kind?
Why we drag amazing people down instead of working hard to reach their level or accept what we have?
Why we hold a place only to endlessly give others hard time when we deep down realize we do not deserve the place? Or that there is far more suitable person for this?
Why is our petty ego and greed without capabilities are more appreciated than a competent and skilled person, just because we arrived first?
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It’s despairing to see amazing fellows fading in the background for not gaining favoritism, nepotism.
It’s utterly agonizing to see the kinder souls shutting them down from the active participation of making things better for being hurt endlessly.
It’s terrifying to think we are progressing towards a time where people are becoming extremists and aligning with unjust.
How come we never think the society we are building is ALSO where we ourselves belong!
How is that we never think the generation we are guiding will be the people who will inherit the order from us.
How can we indulge unfairness and nepotism, inflict harm on others when we never want that for us!
I, these days, constantly being reminded of that quote...
Weak men build strong society
Strong society build weak men
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