How to deal with people with big personalities and not get discouraged?
Have you noticed that there are special people around whose behavior is lively in a unique way. In this article we explore how to deal with them or if you have problems with them, how possibly you can solve it.
First we will discuss their attitudes:
They are the light of the crowd
People with strong personalities are always the center of attention, they might not even have much of a talent or they might not even be smart, but one quality that distinguishes them from other people is that they know that you should not take this world seriously and with their actions and behavior, they show this to everyone around them. You never see them down or depressed, they know how to get back up and fight a certain shortcoming or flaw that they might see or others might point out to them. These people have so many enemies and the enemies try to discourage them and take them down some how, but they always fail if the person is also smart.
They have a large circle of friends
They know people and they don't judge them and that's why they have a large circle of friends who offer support when these people need it. They know how to keep an ally with their courage and perseverance.
They know what each person is up to
When they look at you, they know what you are up to and they know if a situation will benefit them or not and they act accordingly.
How to deal with them ?
Be a dreamer
You have to live according to their standards or expectations
they are dreamers and if you are not a person who doesn't dream or naggs about their life, you wont get their approval.
Fight back, show courage
When you encounter such a strong person and you think they are unbeatable, and you made them defensive, think again because they are humans just like you and you can actually beat them if you set your mind to it. The first thing to remember is that you shouldn't point out negative qualities and come off as some one who is jealous of them in the first place, because these people and their allies will eat you alive and there would be nothing left of you socially to fight back and be an equally strong person in the eyes of others, instead you appear weak minded and shallow. This you don't want to happen. You want to be equally successful as them socially and you don't want to lose friends. Dont worry if you are an introvert, you have qualities that they don't have and you can use these as leverage to your advantage. This is shown through your talents, as if you have some precious thing inside you that no one else has.
Be up to date
These people like to talk about topics of the day and if you cant keep up with them, you will get ignored until they replace you or you will be completely removed from their circle. This removal is not only their decision, but it is something that their circle agrees upon as well.
Love technology and Change
Not everyone dislikes technology, they may not keep up with it or we can say every person has a pace of its own to keep up with technology but everyone evolves and want to be somehow part of the advancement of science. Higher education helps in this area. When you specialize in something, your view changes with the passage of time and we can say technology changes us.