I have an interesting question to answer on this beautiful community. About friendship. Let's talk about that. :)
Friendship is the most beautiful thing to accompany our journey in this world. Some are lucky to have many sincere friends. There are also those who are less fortunate to have many friends.
There is an environment that plays an important role. Often, we may not be accepted in one environment, and have no friends, but when we move to another environment, we will make many loyal friends.
When we don't have friends at the moment, maybe we are trapped in the wrong environment. But that doesn't mean we have to change ourselves to make friends.
For me, friendship is an important thing in life. But that is not the main thing for us to be able to enjoy and have fun with this life. There are people out there who feel tormented if they don't have friends. But for me, it doesn't matter at all. Because, we can't force anyone to be friends with us.
I admit, I am an introvert. But I make friends easily with new people. Even after the meeting, I had to lock myself in my room to regain my energy.
Maybe because of my introverted nature, I don't have many friends. It's not that I don't want to be friends. It's just that the people around me don't fit my lifestyle.
For example, at school and at university, people around me formed friendship groups and often went out to travel for fun. I can't do that. As a child who lived in a family that could be said to be poor in the past, I only cared about studying, studying, and studying. I don't care at all about spending time having fun with friends.
Indeed, we attract what we want. I don't want to waste time, and I attract people who think like me. I had some friends and we had fun in our own way.
Then, in the end, now my husband is my best friend because he is the one who knows best how to make me comfortable.
Meanwhile, I have several online friends who I can call good friends even though we have never met. We are just good at sharing thoughts and I hope we can meet. Maybe we meet. :)
In the end, I can say that it is not easy to make good friends. When you get them, don't waste them. But if you don't have loyal friends, never be sad. Maybe you just haven't found the right one. And, never force yourself to change just because you want to make friends. That will only attract greater falsehood.
As we grow older, we will understand that friendship is about comfort, and sharing other sides of life with our own unique qualities. :)
Best Regards,
Anggrek Lestari
Anggrek Lestari is an Indonesian fiction writer who has published two major books. Now She is a full-time content creator. She has a goal to share life, poem, and food content that makes others happy and can get inspiration.
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