Good day everyone. I hope your all in good mood. It's been a while since I last posted.😬
How much does friendship mean to you? Can you make new friends easily?
Being an introvert, I don't really have a lot of close friends to be exact. Even before when I was still studying. I can count them with my fingers. I know friends are important in our life for we need someone to talk to, hang out with and do things that sometimes we cannot do with our family. Share our thoughts and do things that only girls understand.
As for me, I don't really need that much. I'm ok with few of them. I always keep my circle small. I might hang out with some people that I meet along the way, but it would take time to gain my trust. Since I was once betrayed by a friend whom I treated as a sister. We were neighbours back then and I never think that people like her exist that time. (Even counterfeit bills never in my mind that it exist, until I was charged for accepting fake bills, Deducted from my salary😣.)I was naive that time that I failed to notice. Maybe until now😬. Sometimes I'm still blur in my surroundings and seems like floating. Since that betrayal, I learnt to choose friends whom I can trust. Friends come and go, people change and feelings fade. Sometimes I wonder how that person that were once close to me yesterday, became a stranger today. As time passed by I understand and learn to move on. That's life.
I value my fiends as if they were my sister's. I'm also observant when I hang up with friends. When they start to gossip with another friend that's not present during that time, then I would assume that if I'm not around I would be their topic. I would distant myself from this kind of friends and move on with my life. I don't want to deal with negativity and toxic people anymore. I want my peace of mind. Better safe than sorry😌.
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I don't have problem making new friends, I can make new friends easily. There are times that some of my friends, bring their own friends with them during our meet ups and I can easily get along with them. I can blend with people no matter what the race is. But being a friend and a close friend is a different story. I realized that quality outweighs quantity when it comes to friendship. Not everyone is your friend, and you cannot please everybody. That's the reason why i keep my circle small. I can easily identify which is which. For I don't want to fall in a trap of a fake friend again.
That's all for today guys. See you around♥️.
I've started writing this post on Monday but only finishes it today. This days my mind is a bit blur that I cannot think properly, not only today, most of the days😂
