Dressing is a method we use to communicate to others who we are. There is this popular saying that goes thus “the way you are dressed is the way you will be addressed”.
In this article, I will be sharing tips I found very useful guiding the dressing of ladies especially in this digital age.
Do not expose your private body parts
It is now a norm that some ladies will like to emulate the lifestyle of celebrities by exposing their private body parts like the breast.
By doing this, you tend to generate some form of lust feeling by the opposite sex towards you. This can lead to increase in rape in our society.
I read of a story shared by one of the community member about how her daughter was raped.
Then I got to ask, how has she been dressing to class even before going to meet the lecturer which triggered the incident?
I am not supporting rape because I also had similar experience but I superceeded though not everyone has such strength. but I seem to understand sometimes we ladies contribute to our issues. It’s natural for emotional lust to occur as quick as possible in men but not same for women.
That is why you get to see before rape occurs the woman is first reluctant because she isn’t aware and can fight within her possible reach to prevent it. Only when she gets overpowered then it occurs.
Dress to cover your body inner wears
There are ladies who dress to expose their inner wears such as their pants showing their pant lines on light and tight dress.
It not supposed to be so. I even prefer putting one inner bum shot with a pant before actually putting my normal dress. And when I purchase pants, I ensure it’s not the type with visible thick lines.
Honestly speaking, I am not after what contributes to your fashion but am after how you can make it better so as not to lead to unexpected occurrence because when the opposite gender sees you (the men). It only stirs up lust in their heart.
Some of them could come to strike a relationship with you then when they get what they want, they leave you at same time. Most of this could lead to heart breaks and emotional depression too.
You can only dress like that when you are with your partner in your home it’s very okay, I do that too.
Do not post pictures that tends to expose your body parts online
Some ladies are fund of doing so, you will find them posting pictures as regards showing their buttocks and breast on social media.
This only leads to you opening the opportunity for men to view you as a sex tool. Then they strike a relationship with you. Some if you are reluctant about the relationship they might even go diabolical and you find yourself doing their wish after you have given off everything. Am sure you understand what I mean.
Are you a mum, be careful of what your daughter puts on out at teen age because when she increase in age, you may not be able to control her anymore.
Are you a single lady, be careful of what you put on in the compound where the opposite sex lives with you. Even if they are your bothers. Incest is common in our society today.
Thanks for your time reading, I hope you are having a nice day.
