Hello beautiful ladies of hive, I hope you all are having a good day.
I will like to share my journey of life and how it could be of inspiration to someone.
I know the opposite gender term us as weaker vessels but “weaker vessel” to me represents the soft heart of a woman and never to hurt her.
Long time ago when I started my pursuit in search of a job after graduation from the university, it was so frustrating that even in this present economy in my country, the only job you could get freely is either teaching, nanny, or a typist job and non of this actually suits me.
Before my final year graduation from the university, I was a teacher and believe me, teaching was fun but you have no time for personal development especially if you got goals.
I got goals to be a motivational speaker though I will still maintain my web design job. But any environment I find myself to speak for the sake of other ladies, I usually intervene and you will not be permitted to do so if you are not an evidence of independent living. I can refer to this as been creative, or productive.
The real truth is that you can’t just jump out to intervene for people if first you are not an inspiration to people around you yourself.
Back to my teaching days like I said teaching was fun especially to be with the kids but it was stressful due to little pay and you have to wake up early as possible. The day you miss out, your salary gets deducted.
I couldn’t continue anymore because if I could bear the stress of carrying my duties every day with a sincere mind and someone out there who I am working for isn’t appreciating me financially then, I see no need to continue.
I can remember when we acted drama with the kids in school, here is my colleague but we are no longer there.
After that, I went into sewing of clothes, I will sow my clothes by myself and even got myself a personal sewing machine from the proceeds.
And here are sample of dresses I sew myself.
That wasn’t still what I wanted to do, I ventured into acting, acting got me introduced to some influential people whom I met for advice and I realize in life there is actually a reason for meeting people.
I had a personally time with my boss and he told me his daughter is into web design and development and she earns pretty cool from it because she works from home.
I met the beautiful lady who is now married with kids. She taught me for free how to design a website for people where I don’t have to learn all of coding, with just using simple wordpress.
I can design a website, I devoted time to learn and I found out that we actually worked together. That was when I realized I love this type of job.
As I speak with you, I am currently into html coding which I found very interesting.
And I have been making pretty good sum out of it. I am currently planning on how to build my own house right now.
But she told me to leave it for my man that it’s for men, I decided to use the proceeds from my work to venture into business which is poultry and guess what, I have been doing fine.
Am sure this was a kind of motivational to you but actually I took my mum’s mindset which is the mindset of a perfect woman, her focus is to keep moving to greater height despite the stumbles on her way she always maintained a fixed mindset which is always winning, I like it and became like her too which has gotten me to this level.
My advice to you is that, whichever way life pushes you to, make a meaning out of it, complain less as a woman and work more. Devote time for your rest and think of new ways out of your situation.
Me then
Me now
Thanks for reading.
