My brother was the head prefect when I was in primary 3, we attended the same school. These were the frequent happening when I was in primary 3 and he primary 6. He was the number one among students, and this was my pride.
I like to cause trouble and run to my brother. He will definitely defend me, in front of them, and then rebuke me behind. I love him for that. He sees me as the apple of his eye, and he never disappoints me.
While growing up, my brother was my role model, always the best in everything he did and since my primary school days, I determined to be the best in all. I followed his steps and as time flies, I also became the head prefect of my set. The teachers will always say, “it is in their blood” but that was not the secret. I focused because I would rather not disappoint my brother.
He always sees the positive side of life, he is optimistic and believes there is a possible in every impossible. This has helped me to see the world in a different light. I believe giving up is not an option in every situation in life. His name is Abayomi, but I call him ABY. He is an academia who finished higher education with distinction, and he is also into cryptocurrency. He is a good trader and a risk-taker.
But right now, can’t say I have a role model, I just want to be me. Every morning, I wake up and try as much as possible to be my best and discover more about myself.
What inspires me? I ask myself, and then realize I would rather not be that woman who is not independent. in all aspects of life I want to be independent. I want to be balanced. Don’t get the wrong idea, did not plan to be single forever. But will want my spouse to know I am self-sufficient. I cannot be bullied, cannot be mistreated. I am a blessing and not a curse.
He can’t afford to lose me. Have seen numerous women going through hell because they are dependent on their husbands, and it pains my heart. I always advise ladies to be the best of themselves before marriage. Yes, life may not always treat us the way we want. Nevertheless, we are the sole dictator of the outcome. It’s either we give in to it or we come out of it.
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